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My boyfriend and his mates are groping me. It turns me on but I am scared they will take it further.

Q.   My boyfriend has been grabbing me in front of his friends and they have been joining in on grabbing me, ass smacking and pinching and grabbing my breasts. It is a turn on but I'm afraid they will go farther and want more. Any advice?...

A.   21 March 2010: Allowing men to touch and grope you is in a sense giving them your permission to treat you like a piece of meat, the fact that your boyfriend allows his friends to do it shows he clearly has no respect for you but then again by not stoping them ... (read in full...)

He hits me for speaking to other guys!

Q.   hi i really need help. am in a relationship since past 4 years and i have cheated upon my boyfriend and we broke up. after an year he came back to me ans said that he wants to be with me. so we hooked up again. now the problem is he hits me even if ...

A.   21 March 2010: i only read the title and immediately screamed leave him!! he hits you, no person should ever be physically, sexually or mentally abused by anyone let alone someone who is suppose to love you. He came back to you, after you cheated, which means he s... (read in full...)

My boyfriends past relationships are eating meup on the inside, How can I stop this when I know it is ridiculous to feel this way?

Q.   I don't really know where to start on this, I suppose right at the beginning. I'm sorry, but this is going to be really long. Before I ever had a boyfriend, I thought I'd be the kind of girlfriend that wouldn't care about my boyfriend's past...

A.   21 March 2010: i know a lot of people feel like this this and ive never understood why, everyone has a past and the thing you need to realise is that his past is the reason why your man is the way he is, you said he's everything you want well if he hadnt have been ... (read in full...)

What do I do, he seems to be scared of a relationship!

Q.   What can you do with a guy who isn't sure he likes you enough or is afraid of the idea of a relationship or SOMETHING, who knows what, that's stopping him from being with you? He sometimes says things like I'm the only woman he ever thinks about but ...

A.   21 March 2010: how long as this been going on? if its still the start of something new then dont give up on him, sometimes it takes longer for guys to realise what they have and the thought of loosing that takes over the fear of getting committed, so be there for ... (read in full...)

He flirts with me but doesn't want a relationship - what's going on?

Q.   He likes me but doesn't want a relationship, then sometimes he just flirts and asks to meet up what's going on? ...

A.   7 December 2006: it sounds to me like he just wants the best of both worlds, basically 'no strings attatched' sex, the question you have to ask yourself is whether thats for you or not, at least he's told you straight where you stand, now tell him what you want, but ... (read in full...)

She broke up w/ me for the fourth time in six years. I'd like to make it work or else learn how to get over her. Help!

Q.   my gfriend and i have been together six yrs now she has broken up with me now for the fourth time last week and moved out of our house.you would think i would know what to do by now but i love her and want to better our relationship i cant get her ...

A.   7 December 2006: i think that her being raped and malestered has left her with trust issues, that you aren't exactly helping the situation by lying to her. the fact tht it has ended so many times may mean that it isn't working and proberbly will not. you both ... (read in full...)

Wha happen during a pap smear test? And is it best to have it done when you are sexually active?

Q.   i'm not sure if this is the right place to ask. but... what do people do in a smear test? i've heard you have to start having a smear test when you become sexually active. is that true?...

A.   7 December 2006: a smear test involes a nurse/doctor inserting an instrument called a speculum into the vagina, allowing them to see your cervix, they then use summat called a spatula to wipe or scraped over the surface of your cervix to remove some cells. it sounds ... (read in full...)

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