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Am I being unreasonable? She went too far on a fourth date.

Q.   I know I do have some OCD issues which I think may be contributing to this. I have been in love with my current GF for over 6 mos. She is 37 and was previously married for 13 years to the man that she saved herself for on her wedding day at t...

A.   11 August 2014: Looking back, my feelings have definitely mellowed about this issue. I learned that it was ridiculous to obsess about this one freak occurrence in my girlfriends romantic life. An incident that she took place in because she thought she had ... (read in full...)

Am I being unreasonable? She went too far on a fourth date.

Q.   I know I do have some OCD issues which I think may be contributing to this. I have been in love with my current GF for over 6 mos. She is 37 and was previously married for 13 years to the man that she saved herself for on her wedding day at t...

A.   27 July 2014: I realize that the double standard is wrong and not fair. Its just when you hear about an instance like this after you supposedly know everything about each other, it comes as a total shock. It just seems inconceivable to me that she would engage ... (read in full...)

Am I being unreasonable? She went too far on a fourth date.

Q.   I know I do have some OCD issues which I think may be contributing to this. I have been in love with my current GF for over 6 mos. She is 37 and was previously married for 13 years to the man that she saved herself for on her wedding day at t...

A.   19 July 2014: I appreciate all of the thoughtful comments. I do realize that these are my own unreasonable thoughts and have to learn how to control my OCD issues. The is a wonderful woman and the perfect girl for me. I would never tell her about these ... (read in full...)

Am I being unreasonable? She went too far on a fourth date.

Q.   I know I do have some OCD issues which I think may be contributing to this. I have been in love with my current GF for over 6 mos. She is 37 and was previously married for 13 years to the man that she saved herself for on her wedding day at t...

A.   17 July 2014: I have actually been with 9. I realize the double standard and am Not saying that it is right. I just think that unfortunately men and women are held to different standards.... (read in full...)

Am I being unreasonable? She went too far on a fourth date.

Q.   I know I do have some OCD issues which I think may be contributing to this. I have been in love with my current GF for over 6 mos. She is 37 and was previously married for 13 years to the man that she saved herself for on her wedding day at t...

A.   17 July 2014: Thank you for the response. I agree that her past is extremely tame for someone her age, especially considering she went to college. I know its all in my head and cant possibly blame her for anything. Just hurts to think about since I love her so ... (read in full...)

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