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I want my dad to come to my graduation but not his wife and kids

Q.   So first thing, I haven't spoken to my father or that side of my family for almost 8 years now, after my dad kicked me out of his house when I was 14 (I lived with my mother after that - they were divorced). I'm graduating this Saturday from co...

A.   17 May 2012: Amazingly, it did indeed turn out much better than expected. Thank you all for the advice again! Everybody was perfectly polite and well behaved, and even Cheryl was pleasant to be around. It was super weird seeing her kids again - they've ... (read in full...)

I want my dad to come to my graduation but not his wife and kids

Q.   So first thing, I haven't spoken to my father or that side of my family for almost 8 years now, after my dad kicked me out of his house when I was 14 (I lived with my mother after that - they were divorced). I'm graduating this Saturday from co...

A.   11 May 2012: Thank you all for the answers, I appreciate the advice. First a few points of clarification: Anon: Yes, my dad was hurtful towards me and he was the one who kicked me out, but before he got married to Cheryl we were very close and I still care for... (read in full...)

Should he come over to my sister's place at all, given how awkward his last visit was?

Q.   Okay, so I've been dating a wonderful man for almost a year and a half now. He's 24 and I'm 21, and we get along really well and are still quite happy with one another. The only problem with him is that he is incredibly socially awkward, and ...

A.   21 December 2011: Sorry Anon, didn't see your question. It was an awkward interaction because my boyfriend tends to try to make a really good impression by telling a lot about himself and maybe trying to impress people, but it comes off badly. He's interest... (read in full...)

Should he come over to my sister's place at all, given how awkward his last visit was?

Q.   Okay, so I've been dating a wonderful man for almost a year and a half now. He's 24 and I'm 21, and we get along really well and are still quite happy with one another. The only problem with him is that he is incredibly socially awkward, and ...

A.   21 December 2011: Chalice - I did forget to mention in my original post, he does have a word processing disorder that presents itself as a strange blend of dyslexia and very mild autism. That's a part of why he's rather socially awkward. I accept that those things ... (read in full...)

His ex is pregnant but he's still planning to go on with our wedding plans!

Q.   I having been dating this guy for 3monts and we are planning to get married early next year. Everything has been going well until myboyfriend's ex come saying she is 3months pregnant and if my boyfriend doesnt want to marry her then she can have an ...

A.   21 December 2011: You've only been dating this man for three months and you want to marry him already? Sweetheart, that's moving way too fast. You don't know him all that well yet, and I would highly suggest waiting on marriage. It isn't all that uncommon for men ... (read in full...)

I would like some information on 'the Pill' from women who use it

Q.   I am in a long term relationship with my boyfriend, of whom we are totally faithful of each other. I have had the coil for a long time, but it isn't for me because I don't trust it without condoms, whereas we don't want to use condoms any-more...

A.   21 December 2011: The pill can be very helpful. I've been on it for about two years now and have never had any problems. You have to remember to take it, but once you get in the habit that isn't hard, and they label the packets with the days of the week so it's easy ... (read in full...)

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