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I had no idea he was married... now I wish I could hate him, but I don't know what to do!

Q.   I`ve just found out that my boyfriend is married. His wife found his mobile with my name,number and messages. I`m gutted. I cant stop thinking about him and wonder if anything he told me is true. He told me he still loved me and I`m still in...

A.   20 April 2005: I have been on the other side as a wife, and I understand you are hurt too, but you must allow them the space to work at their marriage and, if they decide its over then he will be free to try with you. Being a mistress would be very unfullin... (read in full...)

I'm troubled that my husband developed an intimate friendship with another woman.

Q.   I found out that my husband kissed another woman whilst drunk at a party, and that they had developed a friendship prior to this. He had turned to her for comfort whilst I hoped our marriage was sortng itself out. I feel very hurt, not so much by ...

A.   15 April 2005: Thank you so much. He did admit he was attracted to her, but that it has passed now he realised what he stands to lose. He is a paramedic and she is a nurse at one of the hospitals. I have spoken to her and she assured me nothing else had or was ... (read in full...)

My marriage lacks romance and sex, and I've just rediscovered my ex...

Q.   I have been married for only 1 and a half years and already the relationship lacks any sense or romance or love and our sex life is all but faded memory. When I was out the other night, I bumped into an ex boyfriend who was and probably still is...

A.   14 April 2005: I think that before you embark on trying to get back with your ex, you ought to remember why he is your ex. Talk to your husband as there are two of you in the marriage and it is only fair. Your ex seems like the answer because you are bored, but ... (read in full...)

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