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Hey, my name's Laura and I'm 17. I'm from the UK and I love it here.

I dont have any actual qualifications to help people (unless you count AS psychology!!) but my friends often turn to me in times of crisis and like to give advice if i feel capable of it. I love hearing feedback from the advice I give to improve future advice and because if i gave the advice, that means i care about you and how things work out.

I want to ask this girl to the school dance but unsure whether my mate is thinking the same!!!

Q.   hi! there seems to be a trouble with me a friend. i want to ask this girl to the school dance but i think that he does aswell. i haven't said anything to him. he begins to act all strangely around her. he seems to be unsure and slightly nervous...

A.   24 October 2006: If you think your friend REALLY likes her you should ask him if its ok for you to ask her but otherwise - ask her first and if he confronts you, claim ignorance!! In the lon run, its only a school dance - just ask her and see how it goes xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

I fancy my teacher at school!

Q.   I fancy a teacher at my school who is leaving next friday what do i do?...

A.   12 July 2006: :( im sorry to say, they're right. Last year, i was CRAZY about this one teacher and he left at christmas :( but now i hardly ever think about him. I'm not saying i know all and it WILL be the same for you but it's likely and there, tbh, isnt a lot ... (read in full...)

Do girls really feel "vulnerable" the next morning?

Q.   I read that when a women has spent the night (and had sex) with a guy, she feels vulnerable the next morning. Why is that?...

A.   9 July 2006: They do. We feel that we have trusted you with a lot and maybe, if it is the first time we are sleeping with you, we might be afraid about how you feel - "what happens now?" "does he regret it?" "do i regret it?" So many questions are going through ... (read in full...)

Do woman value the "same" attributes in a man before she becomes attracted to him?

Q.   what really switches a girl on to a man? does looks really play a big part in it? i know for most men (the perhaps more shallow of us) its the ususal good looks, curvacious, sexy body that provokes the chase, as it were. do woman value the ...

A.   9 July 2006: Obviously, when you first look at a person, before you know anything about them, the first thing you notice is how they look. BUT - you could be Johnny Depp and a complete asshole, then girls won't be interested in you. On the other hand, you could ... (read in full...)

What if my flirting boyfriend breaks up with me and goes out with my friend?

Q.   My boyfriend has this "friend" who's also my friend and they tend to flirt alot when were all together. I'll admit it, it does make me a little bit jealous when they flirt with each other because then he just totally ignores me and totally focuses ...

A.   9 July 2006: I think you should have a word with your friend about this as she won't want to hurt you and is most likely doing it unintentionally. If this doesnt help, then speak to your bf but thats a kind of last resort. When they are together, make sure you ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend and he failed! Still want him though...

Q.   Hiya, Recently I've been thinking that my feelings for my boyfriend aren't as strong as they used to be. So, my friends decided to test him, see whether he truly liked me, he was talking dirty with them, and stripped off on webcam. He then denied it ...

A.   9 July 2006: You don't want to be lonley and that's fair enoughbut if you're not going to be happy in your relationship then you ought to break it off. You need to tell your bf the truth first and see what he says. i think he will be angry that you tested him ... (read in full...)

I'm a gay teen, have met another guy 16 on the interweb but feel so down because we're not together!

Q.   Hi, Im 15 and I met this 16 year old boy on the net, and he's the nicest thing in the world - he's so sexy, but hes also funny, kind, polite and well fun to talk to n he says the same about me. We talk every night, and we both have webcams so ...

A.   8 July 2006: This is tricky. I think you need to come out to some people - say your parents and some close friends. I think this would make you feel less alone. We're in 2006 - if people have a problem, it's their issue, not yours. Then once your parents know ... (read in full...)

Is my best friend's sister taboo?

Q.   I have been attracted to my best friend's sister for quite some time now. I am 19, she's 18, my friend is 20. I want to ask her out, but I don't know how my friend would react. What should I do? I really like her....

A.   8 July 2006: I would say that first you need to ask your friend about it. Sometimes older brothers can be very protective. If he says ok, then go for it but if he says no, its prob for a good reason. Talk to each other about it and make sure he understands how ... (read in full...)

Is it not my right to change her?

Q.   Hello. I have a problem and it's kiling me. I first started going out with this girl when we were only 11. We were soon snogging like we were much older. C,mon when you're 11 a full on snog in school is pretty wild. We lasted about a year and broke ...

A.   8 July 2006: Do not try to change her. If you are truly in love with her you should love her as she is. However, you could be in love with her and also seek excitement - that's ok. just suggest things to her that you might like to do (so long as you don't break ... (read in full...)

I am 11 years old and internet dating!

Q.   well i am 11 and i talk to this guy on msn, i have never felt the same way about any one ever before, we went out a couple times. And now we arent going out, i want him more than anything else in the world. And trust me, i want alot of things! See ...

A.   8 July 2006: I know you're expecting peopel to say this but making him jealous isnt the way. I'm 17 and I've only just got a real bf. Before him, I was very lonely but because of this I can, from experience, tell you that eventually you will get over him, as ... (read in full...)

18 and I'm ashamed to be a virgin!

Q.   Hi. I'm 18, I've never been really kissed (my first and last kiss was a little pash with a guy in year 4) i'm pretty ashamed because all my friends are no longer virgins and constantly ask me about who i've kissed and why i don't a have a b/f. I a...

A.   8 July 2006: I'm 17, my first real kiss was only about a month ago and I was feeling about the same as you until then. I'm still a virgin and the only one in my group of friends. I'm not going to use the old cliche of "soon enough you'll find someone". Even if ... (read in full...)

Will a guy always get your number if he likes you?

Q.   If a guy really likes you he will get your number from a mutual friend? Is this always correct. ...

A.   8 July 2006: No. He could be shy, it might not have occoured to him - the list goes on. Get his number, text him. Just say something like "hey, its [your name] me and a group of friends are going to see [enter film]. Want to come with? xxx" or something like ... (read in full...)

My BF asks me to get on my knees and beg him to be gentle before sex!

Q.   I have been having sex with my boyfriend for the past 3 months or so, but recently, before sex, he has been asking me to get down on my knees and beg him to be gentle (as that turns him on)...what does this mean? Why does he like me doing that??...

A.   7 July 2006: i get the impression that you aren't so much uncomfortable with this as confused by it. As Yos said, he just gets turned on by being the dominant one. I personally would get turned on if my bf was on his kness begging me to be gentle (extra turned ... (read in full...)

We're secretly engaged... But she doesn't like sex any more!

Q.   Hi I'll try Make this short, Me and my girlfriend have been with each other for just over a year now and have been secretly engaged to each other for about 2 months. By secretly I mean we have not let anyone else know Mainly because we have not yet ...

A.   7 July 2006: A difficult question. Its good that you've spoken to her about this - sometimes thats the hardest thing. Maybe, you need to try something new with her - try taking her out. Wear the clothes of yours that she likes, pay for a nice restaurant and ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a younger girl...

Q.   I'm 17, and I'm a lesbian. I've known this girl for just a little over a year next month, and I'm madly in love with her. The problem is that she lied about her age. she's not 15, but 13. I can't stop loving her, so what should I do?...

A.   7 July 2006: This is a pretty difficult one. I do agree that age is only a number but a lot of people are gonna have problems with you two being together. I think as long as you two can get over what others say together you should be fine. I think you should ... (read in full...)

His eyes say he's hurting. What should I do to get him to talk to me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up in March. I'm trying to get over him, but every time I see, he stares at me and follows me. He told me when we broke up that he was unreliable, and his mom claims that night he cried all night because he broke up with me. ...

A.   5 July 2006: Men are wierd!! I think you should go around to his house when you know he's going to be in and ask to speak to you. If hes still in to you he wont say no. You need to find out about how unreliable he is. Surely if he knows he's unreliable he knows ... (read in full...)

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