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I love to listen. I am in a relationship where I am not treated as well as I should be for a wife or a mother. So any advice I can offer to others in my situation or in situations I have been it, then Im all ears. I put my heart into these answers and Ive only done a few but it has taken me about 20 minutes to do each because of all the thinking it takes to give that right about of advice!

Will he know I am a virgin?

Q.   heya this lad im seeing thinks im not a virgin! but i only told him iv had sex twice b4, will he know im a virgin or not? ...

A.   12 October 2006: Yes its very tight so he will know!! Plus maybe not straight away but you bleed a little if your hymen isnt already broken. Things like tampons even riding a bike can even break it. So yeah. Tell him the truth. It happened to me. A guy I liked, I ... (read in full...)

How do men get free sex without having to pay for it?

Q.   Hi!, i need to ask a question that eveyone escapes from or ignores, without being offensive. How do men get free sex without having to pay for it. More and more men are struggling to get free sex. Its a growing problem that needs to be solved, its ...

A.   11 October 2006: Sounds like your lacking in the looks department and women dont want to have a bar of you. Your question is kinda dumb. You want sex and cant get it, go to a prostitute. If you want meaningful sex with somebody you like or fancy, get out onto the ... (read in full...)

Why are the only blokes I like either older or married?

Q.   Ok my problem is that every bloke i like or even get on with is married. For the past two years up until june i was seeing a married guy who was 12 years older than me (i'm 22), we got on so well, we also fell in love but i ended because it ...

A.   11 October 2006: Well first off, if the wives of any of these men find out, you could break up a marriage, thats called being a home wrecker. You are being used as a toy to these men. I dont know if its sexual yet but if it is then your being played for a fool. ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid to get married again, I've been there twice. What do you think?

Q.   I am 48 years old, divorced twice, single since 1990. I have been dating a man for 13 years now, I fell deeply in love with this man from early in the relationship. He is divorced after a 28 year marriage. He and I get along great together and talk ...

A.   11 October 2006: What is marriage?? A piece of paper that says boom! in the eyes of the law your married!! If you not as willing to get married a 3rd time but sill want a special comittment to this womderful man, then have a commitment party!! Ive been to one ... (read in full...)

What shall I do? Is it possible to love two people?

Q.   I am married and have been for nearly 5 years. I am 24 and my husband is 28. I met a 20 year old man a year and a half ago who i have fallen head over heels with. The problem is I dont have to guts to leave my husband for him. I want to but I love ...

A.   11 October 2006: My husband puts nothing but money into our relationship. He works long hours. I never see him except for the odd day off that falls on my day off and he treats me like dirt because he is insecure about himself. Oh and he has had many thin ... (read in full...)

How can I make losing my virginity less painful?

Q.   I am 15 and I am still a virgin I no it is against the law to have sex before you are 16 but my 2 best mates are having sex and have been since I have known them I think I am ready to have sex but I carnt help but keep thinking it is going to really ...

A.   11 October 2006: Sex is not scary. It is something you share with someone you have strong feelings for, maybe even love. It is sore thats true. The first couple of times. But i was petrified of sex until I met a very special guy. And i was the one who in the heat of ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend really upsets me with his teasing. Am I taking this too seriously?

Q.   I’ve always been led to believe that teasing is one of the ways a guy will show you he likes you, but tonight my boyfriend was teasing me so much I almost ended up in tears. I would have called it borderline bullying. I have been feeling a little ...

A.   11 October 2006: My husband and I were together for 10 months before we got married. And the only reason we did is because I fell pregnant and felt it was the right thing to do. Now we have been together for 3 years and his constant bickering about my weight, ... (read in full...)

His ex gf says she wants him back! He doesn't know what to do. Should I leave or hang in there?

Q.   My bf is in a dilemma he went to meet his ex to clear the misunderstandings now she says she will die if he leaves her.he dont know what to do.as far as iam concerned i dont think i cant think of anyone other than him should i leave him to decide ...

A.   11 October 2006: It is totally up to him. Maybe you can help his jog his memory as to WHY they broke up in the first place. They both must have been unhappy about something if their relationship ended. Just remind him of that, and also tell him you love him and ... (read in full...)

She has been with 6 guys before me, I dont know what to feel!

Q.   My girl just told me she had been with 6 guys before me. One of them was her first love. The second raped her two times while she was with her first love. The third was her first loves friend she began seeing after her first love. The fourth was a ...

A.   9 October 2006: Please just remember one thing. What happened in the past stays in the past. My husband was not too happy to hear about my past and I honestly so nuts when he brings up my past. Ask her how she feels about this. Tell her its eating at you and you ... (read in full...)

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