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I like my guy friend..should I tell him and then ask him out?

Q.   i have a guy friend and after a while i really like like him but he dosent know it so what do i do and if i do tell him and hes okay should i ask him out? help me out!!!!!!!!!!!!...

A.   17 October 2006: okey this is just my opinion... before you do anything try to flirt and stuff like that to see if he will flirt back. the way i am i would never ask guy out, i get them to ask me out.. and maybe if u tell him u like him you might actually scare him ... (read in full...)

My parents would flip if they knew I was dating 'Superman"...what should I do? (long post)

Q.   I need help. I am 20 years old and so is my boyfriend, I'll call him Superman. We started going out on 20th March 2004. I have been with my boyfriend for exactly 2 years and 6 months on 20th September. I love him so much and I would do anyth...

A.   20 September 2006: the only thing i can say girl is OMG your love story is so much alike to mine... almost everything is the same... parents, friends,b/f situation even our age is the same... funny and strange but what you can do is to go on and do what you do. you ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my ex that I still love him after a year ?

Q.   My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for a little over a year and i still love him. I never stopped loving him. We broke up for many different reasons. Some tings were my fault and some things were his fault. I do not talk to him anymore but I ...

A.   16 September 2006: ok there is couple or few things that i would do.. do you think that he might at least like you if not love you because i can feel if someone still likes me just something in their look when they look at you. Sometimes if you say how you feel it m... (read in full...)

My fiance checks in on his ex...Should I be worried???

Q.   Should I be worried about my fiance checking in on his ex-girlfriend? We have been together just over a year and been engaged for 4 months. He moved in with me 3 months ago; right before that I was using his computer and noticed that he'd been on ...

A.   14 September 2006: it is very difficult situtaion, but ill ask you one question what would made you to check up on your exes??? would you ?? i dont see the reason y you would do that because you have fience and you love him and past guys that you have been in ... (read in full...)

My gf has negative issues about her body and I'm trying to understand-anyone else ever experience this?

Q.   The girl who I was with for three years was a blonde, size 8,blue eyes, she was a 32b but went to a 32d with her boob job. Since being around 2 imparticular people at uni shae has questioned her weight no end, she used to go swiming 4 mornings a ...

A.   13 September 2006: well you are right girls do have issues but she has more then avrage girl. so what i can say is that you already told her how perfect she is and you didnt mention anything that you would change about her so she needs help. some kind of help. because ... (read in full...)

Tried sex for the first time and the inner lip of my vagina started to bleed. Am I too small?

Q.   im 15 i havnt had sex yet, when i tried it with my boyfriend it was really painful and the inner lip of my vagina started to bleed slightly...i found this strange because it was as if it had ripped! we left sex and decided to stick to the oral stuff ...

A.   11 September 2006: ok in my opinion is that you are losing virginity.. i was 15 when i lost mine too and i really didnt know much about sex tilll now lol. umm the first time i had it it was really painfull and i bleed too not alot but lil bit and when i did it again i ... (read in full...)

We are in our 20's but his parents are very controlling!!!

Q.   I am having a lot of problems at the moment. My boyfriend of 2 years is being told what to do all the time by his parents. He rarely stands up against them. Whenever we have time together, he is asked to come home early and not allowed out much. ...

A.   11 September 2006: ok hun i am here in the same situation as your bf and trust me you cant do a lot. if you where him you would understand it more. what i can tell you is if you love him try to work this through. I am honestly on the edge and im about to move out ... (read in full...)

I divorced a year ago, but now I feel I will never find that special someone!

Q.   I went through a divorce about a year ago and I guess I am not handling it very well. I have friends who went through this too and to a tee, they are all now in new relationships. I cannot seem to shake the hurt and humiliation of my breakup and ...

A.   9 September 2006: ok hun, just relax just yr. ago you got divorced. The reason maybe you havent find that special one is a)you still love your ex housbend, b)recently got divorse c)not a social person.. you are probably scared and you feel like you need someone to ... (read in full...)

He's a Muslim, Im a Catholic, is there any point to carrying on ?

Q.   i am nearly 18 and hav been with my boyfriend 3 months. We have the best relationship and love eachother dearly. The only problem is hes muslim and im catholic. The whole thing is a secret and both our families would kill us if they found out. Is ...

A.   8 September 2006: as matter of fact i know married couple that works with me and she is muslim and he is christian.because i was wondering how is to be married with guy different religion i ask them. they have told me that their families get along. they both belive ... (read in full...)

We had sex but he is now treating me like dirt!

Q.   Repeating the same mistakes over and over. I'm so tired and low tonight, I just don't know how much more I can take. I seem to be setting myself up for such a rubbish time of it, and I can try and blame others but really it's down to me. A...

A.   8 September 2006: many good advices posted. and i had to add something. i understand how you feel the good people always feel like bad things are happening to them because they are more emotional and care too much. Like other readers said just forget about him, he is ... (read in full...)

I'm not looking for a relationship with my friend, but we had sex! What do I do now?

Q.   I am a female and have known a male friend of mine for over 10 years. Over the time we have had many drunken snogs but just recently we both got drunk and ended up back at my flat and one thing led to another. The next morning was a bit surreal ...

A.   8 September 2006: ok hun, because you know him for so long maybe you should sit and talk to him. admitt that you both got drunk that night and that you didnt wanted to happen because you dont want to destroy your long friendship just for one night,when you havent ... (read in full...)

Should I move in with him or will I just be left at home lonely while he parties with his mates?

Q.   Last weekend, I was at my boyfriend's and he asked me whether I will move in with him. We live 2hrs drive apart and we both wish we can see each other everyday. I love him dearly, but I don't know why I don't know how to answer that. Moving in with ...

A.   8 September 2006: ok first question is how long have you been dating??? if you feel like you should and if you have known him a long time maybe you should then move in because you might later reqret it and question your self.. but honestly if you know him few months ... (read in full...)

He won't connect with my kids, and he calls them names! What do I do?

Q.   hi, I have been in a relationship for 4 years but my partner has never really connected to my 2 children, at first I ignored this but as time has gone on I no longer can, Our relationship: he has his money and I have mine (his choice) he pays ...

A.   8 September 2006: ok your kids are the most imortant thing to you at least they should be. how much do you really care for this guy and do you need him? in my opinion i think that you are quilt for what has happened. he doesnt need to buy things to your kids but you ... (read in full...)

My BF just won't open up to me on the phone...

Q.   I'm in a distant relationship with my boyfriend. He calls me every night just to talk about what happen at work and such. I like the idea that he'll call me everynight. However, I feel like I'm always the one talking, and he's just listening. He ...

A.   8 September 2006: guy are not talkative like we girls. they dont open up to us like we open up to them. He told you what happen but actually he doesnt want you to see that he is weak in any way and thats not only him thats how guys are.they like to keep it ... (read in full...)

I'm going to college, can my boyfriend and I last through it?

Q.   Hi. I'm going to be starting college in a couple of days. And I recently got involved in an LDR. Just for some background info: Me and this guy were friends for two years. During those two years, I was absolutely head over heels for h...

A.   8 September 2006: ok hun im in similar relationship.. i know this guy for lil over 2 yrs and we been dating on and off. he leaves for collage every summer and it is deam hard. what you need to do is make sure that he know how much he means to you and when you away ... (read in full...)

Should I get involved in an online relationship?

Q.   i have met a lovely man over the internet tonight but not sure whether to start a relationship with him or just stay friends. I have never had a relationship before i am thirty seven and i was looking after my sick nan up until three years ago. Not ...

A.   8 September 2006: ok advice for you. even thought you are 37 you should now stay friends with him for sometime.. get to know him first who he is what he does things like that because the relationship that fast wont work i promise you that. if you guys stay friends ... (read in full...)

I love her so much, but I cheated. What can I do now?

Q.   Back in high school I started dating a girl that i thought was the most amazing person in the world. I knew that one day i would definately marry this girl. Which i know is a lot to think about when you are only 16 years old, but I could just tell. ...

A.   8 September 2006: ok lisen..maybe you guys need this. this kind of brake from each other seriously.. you guys were both young when you started to date and you need to explore more before setteling for serius getting married situation. what you can do if you have... (read in full...)

He loves rough sex and I want him to calm down! Is there anything I can do to make it less rough?

Q.   My boyfriend is really into rough sex. I've asked him time and time again to calm down but it's like he loses control and starts either biting me or going too hard...I've talked to him and he says he's trying to cool it down but is there anything ...

A.   16 August 2006: if he cares about you he will try to change himself and not be so selfish and try new things with u that you will both enjoy and if you see that he wont and isnt changing you should do soemthing about it like dump him caz if talking isntt helping ... (read in full...)

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