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He's upset his ex has moved on. Does this mean he doesn't want to be with me?

Q.   my boyfriend just found out his ex has moved on and is upset. He said he needs a few days to sort out his feelings and just wanted to be honest with me because i am a good woman. what does this mean? does he want to break up with me? or does he ...

A.   3 September 2008: I don't think it strictly means that he doesn't want to be with you. Two factors you may want to consider is how long the two of them were together and how bad of a break-up it was for them. If your boyfriend was with this girl for a long period of ... (read in full...)

I think of other girls, is this wrong? Should I leave my girlfriend?

Q.   should i dump my girlfriend because im thinking about other girls, i mean i know a lot of nice other girls, but i love my girlfriend, but i often wonder if i wasnt with her would i have a better relationship with another girl, and i kinda feel that ...

A.   3 September 2008: It's absolutely normal to think about other girls so no you shouldn't leave your girlfriend just because you think about other girls. As long as they are just thoughts that stay in your head and you don't act on them you'll be just fine.... (read in full...)

We both look at porn for somewhat different reasons, but I'm still jealous!

Q.   I am a female and I sometimes look at pornography, mostly because the art I make is pretty risque. I almost always am sort of detached, but it's fun work. Sometimes, but very rarely, I enjoy what I see. My fiance knows I look for reference and ...

A.   3 September 2008: Your not being unfair. You've admitted that you look at similar material for the artwork you do which I'm guessing is very openly done not hidden like he is doing with you so maybe that's where the jealousy is coming from. It's not so much that your ... (read in full...)

I asked him what we were and of course I wasn't surprised when he said friends with benefits. I want more and don't know what to do.

Q.   About a year and a half ago I got out of a marriage that lasted less than a year with a guy I was with for 5 years beforehand. Just after a few months of single status I was at the club with a friend when I ran into this guy that I used to go to ...

A.   3 September 2008: if he does not want to be more than 'friends with benefits' then he probably does not deserve you anyway. You could try discussing with him if he would like to take the friendship further to see whether he has thought about it being more than what ... (read in full...)

I want to be a companion for lonely women. Any advice on finding clients?

Q.   I'm 19 and I want to become a companion for lonely women. I've heard that older women want more than sex (they want someone to have fun with, talk to). Well I'm good at that and I'm reasonably attractive too. Money is not an issue...if women pay me ...

A.   3 September 2008: Have you thought about answering lonely hearts columns in national newspaper? There may be a good place to start. Other than that you could try one of the numerous online dating sites there are out there now, I'm sure you would be able to find ... (read in full...)

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