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I'm really scared about coming out to my family!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I really hate saying this fact about me but i'm gay and have accepted but I'd do anything to not feel like this but I can't turn back now. I've gone through the step of accepting myself for it now I always fantasise and occasionally...

A.   2 May 2010: You need to be sure of your sexuality before you do anything. This may be a "crush" type situation that may pass. You may "discover" girls and women, or may be what is known as "bi-curious" or whatever. That you have to sort first. If you really ... (read in full...)

Unemployed husband has put faith in God, while we owe 40 thousand pounds!

Q.   I been married for over thirty years now. My husband I both work for the same company. My husband has arthritis in his leg and been complaining about it.He has beenworking with this comapany for over thirteen years. Anyway he came home one day from ...

A.   2 May 2010: Ever heard of the Full Gospel Businessmen's Felloship. It started in Amenica and came to the UK. I used to counsel people and had a few like you man. SO resting in the Lord is wonderfull but does not achieve a lot, except stressing out all around ... (read in full...)

Her ex was 'bigger' than me!

Q.   well, we are a evangelic couple, and we'll have sex just after marriage, before both of us turned evangelic and knew each one, we had another partners... we don't amke sex yest but she putted her hand on my dick when i came out from the bath and...

A.   26 January 2010: Don't bother about girth all this ballyho about size is not the real issue. Of course men want to be the biggest eyc. its our pride and insecurity at work. I am an engineer and I marvel at the thought and cleverness that has gone into the design o... (read in full...)

I was raped and need advice on what to do

Q.   i'am really lost and really do not know what to do, it's really hard to say but i have not told anyone in the 2years that it has happened. i was raped when i was 15 there was more to it, as i formed an attachment towards this man. he was a security ...

A.   26 January 2010: The main issue here is you have now finally realised that this man will hurt someone else. Therefore action should be taken. I have friends in the Judiciary who woule be quite clear in this - you report the matter forthwith. However you need to ... (read in full...)

I think the girl I'm dating has a drinking problem!

Q.   dating this girl for about 8 months and i think she may have a drinking problem..she goes out a few times a week for "dinner" with friends and has called me from the cab at 1 am and seemed drunk on more than a few occassions..she also has a few ...

A.   12 January 2010: People who drive around off-licences for a bottle of wine after a night out which includes drink have a problem - Message ends!!... (read in full...)

His comments made me wonder "Is he just not that into you?

Q.   I recently started dating a man who is 11 years older than me, we have known each other for a few years and been friends ever since. He was in a relationship until about 3 months ago and although it was always obvious that we found each other ...

A.   12 January 2010: You don't say how old you both are. 11 years at age 30 is not so "dramatic" as at say 50 years. However, think about some practical issues. You will both get older, and he may want to stay in and do very little in later years. Men can get funny, a... (read in full...)

We only have sex about 3 times a month, help!?

Q.   Hi all. This is my first question so bear with me. I'm in a relationship with my fiance and have been for 4 1/2 years. We have a 2 year old child together and a mortgage and share pretty much everything. I Love her and she loves me. I couldn't i...

A.   3 January 2010: Now then young man - Life changes when kids come along. I remember when my first son was born, and mum gets most of the work and stress. Sorry but that is a fact of life. You don't say how old your child is, or if you are both working. I was fort... (read in full...)

Is it possible to get pregnant and after how long should I go to check?

Q.   Please i need your help. I started my periods on 25th last month on the 27th that is my 3rd day of my periods i ended up with my boyfriend. We didnt make love but he was brushing near my vagina until he cum now idont know if the sperms went in. ...

A.   2 January 2010: Well I think you are worrying a little too much. So he came over you outside, and also you period is 3 days old. At that time of the month you will not be fertile as your period has started. The lining of the womb has broken down and any eggs are... (read in full...)

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