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My partner and I have been together for almost a year now, when we first started dating we use to go out heaps.

Now we both work during the week the only time we get to see each other is on weekends. We hardly go out anywhere and he never spends money on me.. Don't get me wrong I think things should be 50/50, I've spent so much money(hundreds maybe thous) on him within the past year and he hasn't spent much in reurn at all...

So on weekends all we do is sit at his( his mum's place) all weekend watching telly, video games and drinking... I'm starting to feel like a caged annimal I need to get out and do something new, but he doesn't ever want to make an effort or go anywhere.. well unless its cheap..!!

On top of all that his mum doesn't want me staying at their place all weekend anymore cos she "wants her rest" even though she's never there...? Now we have to ask his mum if I can stay another night during the weekend..How sad!! By the way I'm 22 and his 20.. We're not kids..

Can anyone make anything of all this? Help?? Any advice????

She won't have sex. I'm tempted to cheat

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A.   18 August 2010: Dude... Just chill, I know this can be very frustrating but you need to stop stressing and relax for a bit! She's more likely scared more than anything, she wouldn't have a clue what to do and the first time is kind of nerve-racking for a woman.Li... (read in full...)

Can anyone help me understand my dream, please help?

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A.   4 March 2010: Now I have an understanding, thank you so much! I do miss him, but feel like I'm moving on. This is so so true!!... (read in full...)

Should I just walk away or should I stand my ground as his bestfriend?

Q.   Hey Ok so my ex and I stopped talking for about four months (after break up), got to the point where I truly thought I was over him. He contacted me out of the blue and wanted to be friends, after 3 weeks I acepted and we started chatting heaps a...

A.   18 February 2010: Oh we were talking when they were together from the begining though? I think she cracked the shits when she saw a pic of me from ages ago(when we were together) in his phone which he was still yet to delete. Was a pic of him and I with his arm ... (read in full...)

Should I just walk away or should I stand my ground as his bestfriend?

Q.   Hey Ok so my ex and I stopped talking for about four months (after break up), got to the point where I truly thought I was over him. He contacted me out of the blue and wanted to be friends, after 3 weeks I acepted and we started chatting heaps a...

A.   18 February 2010: Thanks Stacy! = ) Not sure if I still love him I'm still a bit confused there, but in all honesty I do miss him heaps and our chats. But I agree if I keep going here I'm only going to hurt my self in the end. Do you really think his only ignorin... (read in full...)

I'm starting to feel like a caged animal in this relationship!

Q.   My partner and I have been together for almost a year now, when we first started dating we use to go out heaps. Now we both work during the week the only time we get to see each other is on weekends. We hardly go out anywhere and he never spends m...

A.   24 July 2009: Thank you!! = ]... (read in full...)

I'm starting to feel like a caged animal in this relationship!

Q.   My partner and I have been together for almost a year now, when we first started dating we use to go out heaps. Now we both work during the week the only time we get to see each other is on weekends. We hardly go out anywhere and he never spends m...

A.   23 July 2009: He doesn't have many friends due to he was home schooled. So the friends he does have he hardly sees them, well that I know of.. He and i work but I work day and he works night during the week, hence why we wait until the weekend. Money tig... (read in full...)

What is the truth about anal sex?

Q.   I want to know the truth about anal sex. does it hurt. and ive heard that you can poo, or there may be remains of poo on the condom after withdrawal, is this true???...

A.   22 July 2009: Ok so for the first few times it does hurt, but make sure you use ALOT of lube and after a while it starts to feel good. Make sure he plays with your clit or use a vibrator to help you feel stimulated. If you do feel pain use a safe word or jus... (read in full...)

I'm starting to feel like a caged animal in this relationship!

Q.   My partner and I have been together for almost a year now, when we first started dating we use to go out heaps. Now we both work during the week the only time we get to see each other is on weekends. We hardly go out anywhere and he never spends m...

A.   22 July 2009: Thanks Renee!! = ] He can be very selfish at times, and he knows this!! I've told him lol. He told me before we met and got together staying at home was the one thing he did 24/7 and he said its a hard habbit for him to break. There was a poin... (read in full...)

I've been having an affair with my friend's 16 year old daughter, and now she may be pregnant!

Q.   Iam a married 40yr old who has been having an affair with my friends 16yr old daughter. She may now be pregnant and I think I love her. What should I do?...

A.   14 July 2009: 1). I'm going to point you into the same direction as everyone else.. Get the test done!! Make sure you get the blood test as it is better than any other pregnancy test!!! 2). I have to ask why weren't you using protection in the first place? ... (read in full...)

Should we go ahead with the threesome?

Q.   Hi there, I'm in need of some advice regarding my current relationship/sexlife I'm Bi and have been for a long time, I've always wanted and still really want to have a three sum with another woman as well as my partner or with two other women for...

A.   24 June 2009: Thats everyone for your advice, has really opened my eyes. I will research it and see what I comes up with in end result. Thanks again!!... (read in full...)

He is distant from me, yet I want to be with him

Q.   i have been with my partner for 6 months, thingz were great then i found out a month into the relasionship that he was still with his ex, we over come that and he split up from her, and things were great for a short while, now i feel that he is ...

A.   17 June 2009: Sounds to me like the time is up for you two, I'm sorry to say hun but I think its time to pack up and walk away. I've come across many men like him in my past and let me tell you, the signs are there.. He seems to have lost interest and maybe he i... (read in full...)

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