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Do you believe someone can 'change' when it comes to excessive porn.

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for over 6 months, in the past he's looked at women, had a blog full of half naked women, womens butts etc when he knew it upset me and continued, he bought lads magazines AFTER we started going out. Now he claims he's ...

A.   12 August 2012: His viewing porn has never been a reflection on you. You are your own beautiful woman. His watching it does not change that. Change your mindset and change your world.... (read in full...)

In the five years we've been together, she's not ever given me so much as even a card, for birthday's, anniversary, or any other special occasion. Do I have a right to be upset?

Q.   We've been together for 5 years now, and during those 5 years I've not recieved a thing from her - Not for birthdays, Xmas', Valentines or even Anniversaries. Now I'm a romantic and try not to be materialistic or superficial about anything, ...

A.   12 August 2012: Considering you didn't mention any strange behavior on her part, I'll go ahead and assume that she enjoys receiving gifts and responds happily as one normally would when receiving an awesome gift. Enough excuses have been made. If upbringi... (read in full...)

Boyfriend looked at porn because I talked to ex, will he keep doing it?

Q.   Hello everyone. I need some advice. Yesterday, I came home and there was a light blinking on my boyfriend and I's antivirus thing. I thought it was no biggie, so I continued watching my show on Netflix. Finally, I got annoyed, and clicked on i...

A.   12 August 2012: He’s using your meeting with your ex as his reasoning for viewing porn. This should alert you to something very significant and, no, not your “cheat” radar. Step inside your boyfriend's shoes for a moment. He’s upset (and rightfully so) over you... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's behavior is manipulative, mean and controlling and I feel helpless because my pride, respect and self-esteem is being crushed..

Q.   i'm not sure what it is i'm doing wrong. i've been dating my girlfriend for nearly 4 years. she's 5 years older than me but personally, i've never cared about age. gradually over the years, like many relationships, you are either good or you star...

A.   12 August 2012: If you're willing to continue this relationship, then you need to cut the self-pity and be proactive in your dealings with her. Catch her on her shit, make your needs clear and have them met, refuse to talk to her/demand an apology when she's be... (read in full...)

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