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I'm only 12 years old and I'm pregnant. I did it with 27 year old man. I don't know how to tell my mom.

Q.   Hi Help I'm only 12 years old and I'm pregnant. I did it with 27 year old man. I don't know how to tell my mom. Help!...

A.   28 April 2007: you will have to tell her right away there checks that needs to be carried out just sit her down and tell her she will be more worried then mad. and this lad you need to tell some one about him what he did was wrong please please just tell... (read in full...)

I'm scared of being rejected because I have never had a boyfriend before because no one had asked me out. I have started to think that I'm not pretty or thin or nice enough.

Q.   For starters, there is this guy i like but he's a year younger than me. He's 16 and I am going to be 17 next week. I'm worried that if i ask him out, people will laugh at me because he is younger than me. Also, I'm scared of being rejected because I ...

A.   28 April 2007: just go for it girl like you said you never had a boyfriend your not going to get one by sitting on your ass (sorry if am been to the point) never let any lad make you think your not worth it. If he say no he say no but he mite not and he mite say... (read in full...)

My ex raped me while we were still going out. He wants me back and being lovesick as I am, I want him back too, but I'm so scared he'll rape me again.

Q.   It's not a question exactly but i need advice. I dont want you all to say that it's up to you and its your decision or alecture on young love n sex cos i know all that :S but.... I am 15 in a fortnight and my (bf/ex bf) is 17. We went out for 2 an...

A.   28 April 2007: if it was me i wouldnt got back if i was scared as thats my body telling me that i dont trust him. What he did was really WRONG and he asking for you back i wouldn't go there i know that easy saying it but its different when its you and its some... (read in full...)

I live in Spain and cannot speak alot of Spanish.

Q.   I live in Spain and cannot speak alot of Spanish. Theres this really cute Spanish guy i like, but i cant get him to notice me. Its really hard to talk to him as i cannot speak the language very well. Last time i talked to him i looked like ...

A.   28 April 2007: well get your self a spanish book or lesson and learn how 2 speak it and wiv every new thing you learn you can show off infront of him yeah he mite notice you but what would the point be in it if you didnt know how to talk to him so he more ... (read in full...)

Paranoid he doesn't like me when he doesnt contact me!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend a month but known him for 14 months. During the time we were just casual he went off with another girl and broke my heart. I haven't spoke to him or seen him since Monday and its now Saturday. I know we have both been ...

A.   21 April 2007: the only thing you can do is to ring him talk to him find out where you stand otherwise if you just text him and he not relpying its going to leave you confused. He may have reasons why he couldn't ring you but what a phone call can only take 5 m... (read in full...)

I have self esteem problems when it comes to boys. What can I do to rid this?

Q.   I have low self esteem, especially when it comes to lads. I really don't know how to cure this self esteem problem. Please help me. :( *Moderator note: next time, please do not capitalize every new word in a sentence. Thank you.*...

A.   20 April 2007: first of all never let any lad put you down. Take it step by step really. set goals for your self i had the same problem and thats what i did. Like if there is some lad you like first goal would to be talk to him a little while and do the thing... (read in full...)

My boyfriend still talks to his ex-girlfriend almost every day online. I don't like it..what should I say to him?

Q.   My boyfriend still talks to his ex-girlfriend almost every day online, and while I know he doesn't have feelings for her anymore, it makes me uncomfortable. Should I say something to him about it?...

A.   18 April 2007: Yes if its making you feel weird tell him how you feel but alot of people are still friends with there ex just make sure thats all it is... (read in full...)

What does it mean if a guy won't speak to you because he finds it awkward?

Q.   what does it mean if a guy won't speak to you because he finds it awkward? I finished with him a month agao and now he refuses to even msn or text me!! ...

A.   18 April 2007: I take it you still want to be friends with him if you only broke up with him a month ago give him some time to heal but at the end of the day its up to him if he wants to be friends give him some time ... (read in full...)

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