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I have urges to have sex but am afraid of the consequences

Q.   i've been urging to have sex with my boyfriend of 7 months a lot lately... i want it really bad but i'm scared of the consequences. what should I do to satisfy these feelings without having to deal with consequences?...

A.   8 May 2010: I lost my virginity at 14 and I do not regret it but I was very responsible. If you do please wear a condom, and preferably get on the pill. Before you go for it, I would def. try doing other things for a while. ... (read in full...)

He is TOO confusing.

Q.   I am in High School and have already experienced my first love and heart break. Before my last break up I constantly flirted with this guy and I found him handsome, intriguing, smart, funny, endlessly fascinating, and just special. He always paid ...

A.   8 May 2010: Thanks for your answer. Yeah he goes to my school and he is not like a 'the guy every girl wants.' That is kind of what I like about him, like he's a hidden gem. He has been so flirty lately. Feeding me food at lunch, telling me I look nice etc. I ... (read in full...)

Waking up from a dream crying?

Q.   So, just a quick question. Have any of you ever had a really odd dream and woke up with a jolt and found yourself crying? I cannot remember many details in this dream. The only thing i do remember is a voice speaking to me very softly. And then...

A.   21 April 2010: Hey I wake up from dreams crying often. Its an anxiety dream. your probably worried something will happen that may hurt you. And sometimes It lingers throughout the day. Like sometimes I have dreams where I am mad at someone and I wake up still ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is more interested in partying with friends than being with me

Q.   Hey everyone. So me and my girlfriend have been together for just about a year and like starting a couple weeks ago she's not acting as cute and cuddly as she always did for the first like 11 months along with not wanting to have sex. To me sex i...

A.   1 April 2010: Ok So I did the EXACT same thing to my boyfriend. I loved him I truely did but after about a year and 10 months I started wanting to go out more with my friends and drink and dance. I stopped having sex with him and felt less attracted to him. I ... (read in full...)

Suggestions on ending 8 years of singledom please!!

Q.   I'm a 29 year old single guy. I've not had a girlfriend for 8 years and, frankly, I'm a bit feed up with the whole thing and would like some advice/suggestions. I've tried various dating websites (several of them) but almost never get any views or ...

A.   1 April 2010: I'm actually young, but I know older singles. (not that 26-29) is old But I would advise you to join groups or something. It really works. Sports clubs, acting clubs, hiking clubs, anything your interested in. And you'll meet new people and m... (read in full...)

Should I try some marijuana just for the experience?

Q.   i am 21 years old and i have never smoked,drank or any other stuff! but all my friends do it..and since i hang out with them all the time i felt an urge to do it too and i tried smoking and i liked it but i am not addicted to it or anything but i d...

A.   1 April 2010: Ok I am def. not a 'pothead' but me and my friends smoke quiet often. I personally do it because I love the experience and the feeling. For me, it makes everything more interesting, and makes me question everything, and see things differently. I ... (read in full...)

Am I the only one who fancies much older men?

Q.   I'm 15 and all the men I fancy or have ever been fixated by, may they be celebrites or people I know, are in their 30s. I've been like this since I started secondary school. If I walk past a guy who looks my age and is attractive, I am not interes...

A.   18 March 2010: I feel the exact same way! I have always have found older men attractive. I think it is because I find intelligence, and maturity attractive. Don't worry it normal. Plus sometimes the guys your own age age are still boyish looking and older men, are ... (read in full...)

Girls is it confidence, appearance, attitude; what?

Q.   Girls: does confidence matter more if the guy is generally seen as "unattractive"? I have good days where i'm super cocky, other days where i'm almost shy. As confident as I get and as much time as i spend on my appearance and personality, I get ...

A.   17 March 2010: My Ex boyfriend, when I met him acted like this big shot. And that initially attracted me to him, but it seems like your just a nice guy on the inside (which he was too). And that is what a girl truly loves. I would say confidence is sexy, and being ... (read in full...)

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