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I have no qualifications to give you advice other than being a person who's previously had both happy and unhappy relationships. Read at your own risk.

Part of me wants to make a new start over but part of me is just so terrified of being hurt like that again!

Q.   I have been seeing a guy for nearly a year. The relationship has been difficult on me and many times helped him and his family out and have been left feeling unappreciated and taken for granted, even slightly used. A couple weeks ago we had a bi...

A.   12 June 2007: I wouldn't recommend getting back together. It's common for the guy to say after the fact that now he understands and now everything will be better. But why should you believe him if he didn't understand you for 2 years before? Obviously he feels ... (read in full...)

Is she straight? Or in denial? What shall I do?

Q.   I started going out with my best friend after we got very friendly, I knew I was gay, but she wasn't. Still after 8 months she insists that she is still straight. I want to know where I stand. I don't know if she is with me becasue she doesn't want ...

A.   12 June 2007: Sexuality is a fluid concept and it changes during a lifetime. Your friend seems to be unwilling to accept being bisexual or lesbian at this time. Personally, I don't think that's much of a problem. Unfortunately, there's a lot of stigma for ... (read in full...)

Why does he never get back to me when I text him?

Q.   I have this one guy i have liked him so much (18yo), for 2 years this september! but early this year i gave up and went out with a guy which lasted 3 weeks. I had finally forgotten about this guy i have liked for so long and when i was dumped i was ...

A.   12 June 2007: I am female, so perhaps it's biased of me to answer this question, but if a guy likes you he WILL get back to you. Maybe it's time to move on? Have some recovery single time, and when you're feeling confident, happy, satisfied, and feel like you ... (read in full...)

I have been suspicious of her cheating, even if its not full sex maybe just fooling around.

Q.   Hey everyone I've been with this girl for 11 months now, I'm very much in love with her and for the most part things are great. However lately I have been suspicious of her cheating, even if its not full sex maybe just fooling around. She says...

A.   12 June 2007: It seems like this girl has a history of cheating and unhealthy relationships. She may have the idea that being wanted by other guys equals being attractive and self-confident. A lot of girls who are good looking seem to have this mind view. ... (read in full...)

How do I know if I am falling out of love? I don't know if I still love him.

Q.   I'm a 26 year old female and I thought I met the man of my dreams. How do I know if I am falling out of love? I don't know if I still love him. I want him to be "the one" more than any man I've ever dated. How do I know if he's the right one? I'm ...

A.   12 June 2007: Love is not just the "spark." Over time it is possible that circumstances will change and you may feel less attraction. However, you should check to see if the qualities that drew you to this man are still present, and if they would be condusive ... (read in full...)

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