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Small hard bump inside me?

Q.   Hi. I'm a 15 year old girl, and I've never had any sexual relations other than a simple peck on the lips with anyone. I recently found a small, painful bump on the right side of my privates. It's not in the vagina. When I feel it it's like a ...

A.   3 January 2010: My guess is an ingrown hair or an infected follicle. If it doesn't go away see a doctor. It maybe a small cyst that could need draining. ... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing by stopping my daughter from masturbating?

Q.   My eleven year old girl has been masturbating lately. Last year for her birthday i bought her this toy dog that when you pull the tail it vibrates. Four days ago i peeked into her room and saw her repeatedly pulling the tail and she had it on her ...

A.   2 January 2010: You have got to talk to her and explain to her that what she was doing was normal and not bad. Maybe explain to her that it is something that is done only in private, but that it is ok to explore her body. Follow this up with a discussion about ... (read in full...)

After 10 years should I contact him and try to get closure?

Q.   Bare with me this a long one. I met this man (DB) when I was 15, I am now 29. He was my teacher my sophomore year in high school. There was a ton of chemistry between us but we never acted on it besides lots of flirting, occasional hugs, and ...

A.   31 December 2009: Thanks for the advice. I agree with all that was said and it is what I tell myself on a daily basis. I know it in my head, I just wish I could get my heart to feel the same way. I guess I was hoping that if I met up with him being 10 years older and ... (read in full...)

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