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Is he too damaged for a real relationship???

Q.   I am confused about a friendship with a newly divorced man. Need to know how to interpret mixed signals and if we can/should make our friendship a real relationship. A couple of months ago I met a man through mutual friends. At his request ...

A.   3 January 2011: I am writing to post an update as requested by Cutestuff who seems to be in a similar boat to the one that I was in three years ago when I first posted this message. So here is the rest of the story. My last update was from March of 2008. ... (read in full...)

Is he too damaged for a real relationship???

Q.   I am confused about a friendship with a newly divorced man. Need to know how to interpret mixed signals and if we can/should make our friendship a real relationship. A couple of months ago I met a man through mutual friends. At his request ...

A.   13 March 2008: Okay I am back again with another little update to the long and never ending saga. I already know what the right thing to do is. I am pretty sure that I already know what is going to happen, but since I have kept you in the loop this far I figure ... (read in full...)

Is he too damaged for a real relationship???

Q.   I am confused about a friendship with a newly divorced man. Need to know how to interpret mixed signals and if we can/should make our friendship a real relationship. A couple of months ago I met a man through mutual friends. At his request ...

A.   28 December 2007: Another Update. Okay, not to beat a dead horse, but this seems to be the story that won't end. So he called. about two months ago just before my birthday he called. "I have learned that if I hold my breath and wait for you to call me my lips turn ... (read in full...)

Is he too damaged for a real relationship???

Q.   I am confused about a friendship with a newly divorced man. Need to know how to interpret mixed signals and if we can/should make our friendship a real relationship. A couple of months ago I met a man through mutual friends. At his request ...

A.   26 October 2007: So I wanted to stop by and pass along an update in hopes of getting a little feed back. My last update was about the final conversation I had with him. A conversation in which I left feeling that in not so many words he had told me that he liked ... (read in full...)

Is he too damaged for a real relationship???

Q.   I am confused about a friendship with a newly divorced man. Need to know how to interpret mixed signals and if we can/should make our friendship a real relationship. A couple of months ago I met a man through mutual friends. At his request ...

A.   11 September 2007: Well, we finally talked about everything. After a relatively fun evening of dinner and a rented DVD we sat on the porch and I told him that I was confused. That I needed to know what was going on and what had happened. We talked for what felt like ... (read in full...)

Is he too damaged for a real relationship???

Q.   I am confused about a friendship with a newly divorced man. Need to know how to interpret mixed signals and if we can/should make our friendship a real relationship. A couple of months ago I met a man through mutual friends. At his request ...

A.   10 September 2007: UPDATE: Well things have come to a head - sort of. On Friday I feel into the same old pattern of getting together, having him tell me that he was really fine not being in a realtionship and then we headed off to bed. This time as I was driffti... (read in full...)

Is he too damaged for a real relationship???

Q.   I am confused about a friendship with a newly divorced man. Need to know how to interpret mixed signals and if we can/should make our friendship a real relationship. A couple of months ago I met a man through mutual friends. At his request ...

A.   5 September 2007: Thanks so much for all of the good advice. I am still not quite ready to run for the hills as it were. After all, he is a the very least a good friend. I guess I just wish I could tell whether certin behavior is just him being friendly or him ... (read in full...)

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