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Am I wrong or am I really a bad person?

Q.   Well this isn't a relationship question really... It's about my dad. He's mentally unwell and uses it as an excuse not to do anything around the house. The bathrooms haven't been cleaned for 3 months and the floors haven't been vacuumed in about ...

A.   22 June 2011: I really feel for you and your little brother... your father is using his mental illness not only as an excuse to turn his daughter into a real-life Cinderella, but as an excuse to verbally and mentally abuse his children. There is NO SUCH THING... (read in full...)

I seem to have stopped loving my husband entirely. Where have my feelings gone? Why can't I rekindle them?

Q.   It's been 10 years since I met my husband, and I've been faithful to him all this time. We've had a difficult relationship. We used to fight constantly. We've both caused each other a lot of suffering and heartbreak. We've lived through poverty ...

A.   22 June 2011: "hi I'm the same female poster here again. I'm glad you've decided to be truthful to him. i want to add a few words of caution..." Thank you so much!! I can tell you know exactly what you're talking about. I will definitely take your advice!... (read in full...)

I seem to have stopped loving my husband entirely. Where have my feelings gone? Why can't I rekindle them?

Q.   It's been 10 years since I met my husband, and I've been faithful to him all this time. We've had a difficult relationship. We used to fight constantly. We've both caused each other a lot of suffering and heartbreak. We've lived through poverty ...

A.   21 June 2011: Thanks everyone for your very helpful advice You've all made it clear that an honest and open talk with my husband has to happen immediately and I completely agree... now I just have to figure out how to say it all to him; I'll probably write i... (read in full...)

I seem to have stopped loving my husband entirely. Where have my feelings gone? Why can't I rekindle them?

Q.   It's been 10 years since I met my husband, and I've been faithful to him all this time. We've had a difficult relationship. We used to fight constantly. We've both caused each other a lot of suffering and heartbreak. We've lived through poverty ...

A.   20 June 2011: The male writer was responding to some of the previous posters who suggested that I stay in a sexless marriage. I agree with him- refusing sex is not going to solve all my problems. I need to stop "leading my husband on," it's not fair to either ... (read in full...)

I seem to have stopped loving my husband entirely. Where have my feelings gone? Why can't I rekindle them?

Q.   It's been 10 years since I met my husband, and I've been faithful to him all this time. We've had a difficult relationship. We used to fight constantly. We've both caused each other a lot of suffering and heartbreak. We've lived through poverty ...

A.   20 June 2011: I'd better clear something up, when it comes to the sex issue... My husband has never forced me into or demanded sex from me. What I really meant to say was that I that I knew he was hoping for it. He's noticed that I've been witholding sex f... (read in full...)

How can I leave without any money and with no-where to go?

Q.   Hi, I have been married for nearly 17 yrs most of this has been unhappy. I have two children from previous marrige who are grown up and don't live with me. Two children from this marrige. My parents are both dead and as I was an only child I have no ...

A.   17 June 2011: You need to call a lawyer to sort this out. In the meantime, you NEED to get a job, even if it's something part-time- so that during the divorce process and after the fact you can survive on your own. Check out craigslist for people seeking r... (read in full...)

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