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If you ever need some help or someone to talk to, please feel free to message me. I will reply back as soon as I can.

I have been through a lot and at 19, I feel that I can help out on any related problems during teenage years or above. I try my best to give out as much help as I can and to be supportive for you.

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How can I make her more relaxed about opening up to me??

Q.   Well i have been dating my girlfriend for about a month now and really our relationship is honestly going no where because i really cant get her to open up and tell me things that are bothering her any suggestions as to how i can make her more ...

A.   3 November 2008: Be careful not to pressure her into opening up. It is still early, be nice and slowly but gradually asked her one question at a time. She probably needs some time to trust you, don't worry I believe she will open up once she has been with you a ... (read in full...)

My sister hates her fiance, so why is she still marrying him?

Q.   My sister says she hates her fiance and his family. She has also said she doesnt want him raising her kids, hates it when he calls, Jeremi is contantly arguing with her....and yet Brandee is still going to marry him! Honestly...i dont get it. Could ...

A.   29 September 2008: Try not to listen to their arguing, if she is in the same room as you are in, go to another room. Wait until they have finished arguing or something, then return back. I understand that it can get to a person's nerves when people are arguing ... (read in full...)

My sister hates her fiance, so why is she still marrying him?

Q.   My sister says she hates her fiance and his family. She has also said she doesnt want him raising her kids, hates it when he calls, Jeremi is contantly arguing with her....and yet Brandee is still going to marry him! Honestly...i dont get it. Could ...

A.   28 September 2008: If he's not rich nor that good looking. I don't really know why your sister wants to marry him. There are many other reasons...but I wouldn't know your sister's reasons.... (read in full...)

My sister hates her fiance, so why is she still marrying him?

Q.   My sister says she hates her fiance and his family. She has also said she doesnt want him raising her kids, hates it when he calls, Jeremi is contantly arguing with her....and yet Brandee is still going to marry him! Honestly...i dont get it. Could ...

A.   27 September 2008: Is he good looking like the previous poster said? If not then I really can't see the reason why she wants to marry someone she doesn't enjoy or wants to be with. Plus why in the world would she continue to have the relationship with him. She migh... (read in full...)

Why you should get a panic button.

Q.   If you have a gate that makes a sound when opened. Always keep your car keys beside your bed. Why? If you hear some one come though (brake in) push the panic button...if you dont have one...GET ONE! No one is going to stick around once the alarm g...

A.   21 September 2008: A home should always have a burglar alarm system. You will feel safe knowing that should anyone attempt to break in, the alarm will go off. If you can get a dog, please do so. Dog's have a good sense of hearing every little noise that goes aro... (read in full...)

Every time I'm about to get over my ex, he tells me loves me and I fall deeply in love with him again! Please help.

Q.   What should I do? Every time i think im starting to get over my ex b/f, he tells me he still loves me, and that makes it hard for me to move on. I know i still love him but don't want to get back with him, cos of what he did, and when he says 'i-m...

A.   21 September 2008: I understand its quite hard to move on from your ex. I was in the same position as well. When she dumped me I found it a little hard to move on. But after a few days I was alright. Recently my ex has said she misses me and missed talking t... (read in full...)

What's wrong with my dad? He keeps forgetting things and I'm really worried about him, please help!

Q.   My dad has trouble remembering things. For instance, I'm supposed to get him up at 5:30am Tues-Fri....But when i got him up today, he said he'd be upstairs in a minute. Ok, so i waited..he never came up. When i got back from my taekwondo class, he s...

A.   18 September 2008: To saltwater, She is not having a wind up with these questions. She lost her mom and therefore is worried about losing her dad. I would be in the same position if my dad wasn't remembering things, I would worry a lot. I think your dad might h... (read in full...)

Why wouldn't her friends let us kiss?

Q.   went out clubbing with friends. And me and my friend started dancing. Than we started hugging and really enjoyin and i knew a kiss was coming but her friends kept pulling her away. She came back herself but they pulled her again and pushed her to ...

A.   17 September 2008: Hello! Do you have her number, say for example her mobile etc? If so, give her a call, see if she's free before university starts for you. Don't hesitate or wait, find a way to contact her. Adding upon the post below mine, think of somethi... (read in full...)

She took my dog away from me!

Q.   I've had my dog, Benji she is a chow. Anyway i've had her for 9 years since before my mommy past away so benji kinda all i have left my mom. My dad remarried months after her death. Anyways a few nights ago my step-mother ask how i felt i she got ...

A.   30 August 2008: Well I hope that he sees now how upset and angry you are right now about it. Hopefully...he will do something about it. ... (read in full...)

She took my dog away from me!

Q.   I've had my dog, Benji she is a chow. Anyway i've had her for 9 years since before my mommy past away so benji kinda all i have left my mom. My dad remarried months after her death. Anyways a few nights ago my step-mother ask how i felt i she got ...

A.   30 August 2008: I hope your dad will talk to your step-mom about this. Your dad should have said something when she said that in front of him...how can she even think about taking away something you love and treasure for 9 years?! And how can your dad not say ... (read in full...)

Is my online girlfriend fooling me around or is she really just like that?

Q.   Hello Everyone, I recently have been sort of this online relationship with a girl in Germany. I am 19 years old in Australia. She is 25. She has always told me she wants to come to Australia and live there with me. Anyhow recently or some s...

A.   29 August 2008: She hasn't come online nor email me. I think yeah its best that I move on in my life. It was tough...but I think its best I let her go if she doesn't want me anymore.... (read in full...)

Is my online girlfriend fooling me around or is she really just like that?

Q.   Hello Everyone, I recently have been sort of this online relationship with a girl in Germany. I am 19 years old in Australia. She is 25. She has always told me she wants to come to Australia and live there with me. Anyhow recently or some s...

A.   28 August 2008: Sorry but I want to update for you. I did give her space. I did it many times. I mean she even told me she liked that I was online each day. Its just that I found out why...she said she didnt feel it was right of her to have me. She said I should... (read in full...)

Should I try and stay friends with my abusive ex?

Q.   Hello, I recently have left my boyfriend of 2 years. It has been 1 month. I ignored him for about 3 weeks because the last day i saw him, he hit me. this is not the first time it had happened. he has been hitting me on and off for about 18months. he ...

A.   19 August 2008: He abused you, physically and verbally. How can you think about treating him as a friend? Your ex is a total nut. You can never see or stick to someone who has abused you! Go out, ignore him, do something to keep yourself occupied. I am bound to... (read in full...)

Why can't a 14 yearold date but not sleep with a 26 year old?

Q.   I was just wondering something. You know how they say you shouldn't see anyone who's really older than you, like in a loving way? like say you're a teen who likes or thinks you're in love with someone say in their 20's or 30's. say you're like 14 ...

A.   19 August 2008: From my various experiences, I strongly advise you to not sleep with a 26 year old. Girls at your age should try to look for guys around your ages or say around my ages 18-19. You still have plenty of time to love someone, don't be so hasty in... (read in full...)

Will some one help me stay a happy 13 year old?

Q.   I feel bad for my self, I feel like i've had a horriable life....Will some one help me stay a happy 13 year old? When i was 3 i had holes in my heart so i needed open heart surgery, twice. At age 4 my dad ran me over with the expodetion, he did not ...

A.   19 August 2008: I guess your counselor isn't doing his/her job properly. A counselor should be there to listen to your troubles and not spread it to your parents. Ridiculous behaviour from your counselor. Take note, don't fall for anything that is too good to ... (read in full...)

Will some one help me stay a happy 13 year old?

Q.   I feel bad for my self, I feel like i've had a horriable life....Will some one help me stay a happy 13 year old? When i was 3 i had holes in my heart so i needed open heart surgery, twice. At age 4 my dad ran me over with the expodetion, he did not ...

A.   18 August 2008: I am very sorry to hear that your mom passed away. I understand that having a step mom isn't ideal either. Try and think positively. Do some sports, something that will keep your mind occupied. Go for a walk, get some fresh air. If you have a d... (read in full...)

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