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Did I do something wrong by refusing to pay for my wife's new dress?

Q.   Hi, I really got to get this out as I don't know what I am doing wrong, maybe there are some factos which I am not taking into account. My wife and I are both young working professionals, my salary is higher than hers by around 30%. We bough...

A.   28 October 2011: Hi All, Thanks for your opinions. I have indeed sat down with her to discuss my financial plan and expenses. Today I told her that I have paid for the expenses, never complained nor asked her to share in it. I have also never questioned on ho... (read in full...)

just want her to be happy. Work is only a small fragment of our life, we have got so much to enjoy and appreciate in this world. Why can't she see that?

Q.   I have known my wife for 3 years and a half, we met while working in the same company. Since then she has left and joined two other companies. We do have the usual arguments now and then which we can handle. However there is one thing that I fel...

A.   30 May 2011: Thanks chocoholicforever for your answers and feedbacks, very insightful. She is not willing to go for professional help, it seems out of the question. In Asia, people still think that shrinks are for people that are mentally unstable, they are... (read in full...)

just want her to be happy. Work is only a small fragment of our life, we have got so much to enjoy and appreciate in this world. Why can't she see that?

Q.   I have known my wife for 3 years and a half, we met while working in the same company. Since then she has left and joined two other companies. We do have the usual arguments now and then which we can handle. However there is one thing that I fel...

A.   17 May 2011: Hi all, thanks for all your thoughts and proposals, it has been very helpful. Some of what you were saying has resonated with my own thoughts as well. Yes, I do realize that earning a five-figure salary is not a solution for the issue, nor is c... (read in full...)

New girlfriend cries all the time, how can I handle this?

Q.   Hi, first of all, thanks for reading this. I am a 27-year old guy currently in a 4-month old relationship with a 32-year woman whom is working in the same company(albeit different department). Ever since we got together, she started crying every...

A.   13 February 2008: First of all, thanks to all who replied with their valid feedbacks and advices. I really appreciate it. I am happy to report that we had a good talk about it, she has taken steps to resolve the source of her depression. She's in a far better c... (read in full...)

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