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I rushed into marriage and now have serious regrets

Q.   I met a man 6 weeks ago, and fell head over heels, but I need to mention I just came from a divorce at the end of january. I agreed in a week to marry him, I was stupid. I realize now I made a mistake, this man is very insecure, accusing me ...

A.   15 May 2009: Well, I had broke it completely off Tuesday evening. We were friends and it was ok, but the feelings I have did not go away. I spoke with his sister who then explained to me he is manic depressive and he has not gotten any more anti-depressants to ... (read in full...)

I rushed into marriage and now have serious regrets

Q.   I met a man 6 weeks ago, and fell head over heels, but I need to mention I just came from a divorce at the end of january. I agreed in a week to marry him, I was stupid. I realize now I made a mistake, this man is very insecure, accusing me ...

A.   12 May 2009: It only seems to be getting worse. He was fine yesterday, then after he went to work last night, he calls me at 1am, telling me he walked back home from work, which is about 5 miles, he got a call that his sister was in a car accident and he ... (read in full...)

I rushed into marriage and now have serious regrets

Q.   I met a man 6 weeks ago, and fell head over heels, but I need to mention I just came from a divorce at the end of january. I agreed in a week to marry him, I was stupid. I realize now I made a mistake, this man is very insecure, accusing me ...

A.   11 May 2009: Another thing, I have to admit, I have fallen inlove with him, other than his insecurity, he is so perfect and loving and caring. I am so confused, I miss him terribly. Am I crazy? I sure feel like I am!!!... (read in full...)

I rushed into marriage and now have serious regrets

Q.   I met a man 6 weeks ago, and fell head over heels, but I need to mention I just came from a divorce at the end of january. I agreed in a week to marry him, I was stupid. I realize now I made a mistake, this man is very insecure, accusing me ...

A.   11 May 2009: Oh my, he did threaten suicide a few days ago! But I have broken it off, and as for the rental, my name is still on it along with appliances we purchased, in my name on my card, and yes, I know now I was stupid for doing so. I did not move in ... (read in full...)

I rushed into marriage and now have serious regrets

Q.   I met a man 6 weeks ago, and fell head over heels, but I need to mention I just came from a divorce at the end of january. I agreed in a week to marry him, I was stupid. I realize now I made a mistake, this man is very insecure, accusing me ...

A.   8 May 2009: The only thing is I have no place to go, I have told him that I would be leaving once the lease is done. He is a wonderful person, but the insecurity troubles me. He is very good looking and I do not see why he has these problems. Thank you for your ... (read in full...)

I'm not in love with my husband any more, please help...

Q.   I need some advice please. My husband is just hateful and full of anger, nothing abusive. I left him once 2 years ago, which I use to be the one crying and begging all the time, now it's him, not as much crying as telling me how much I am "his ...

A.   10 February 2009: Well, I have told him that I just do not want to be bothered anymore. He decided to go, but he has left 3 times and has came back twice and now wants to go to counseling, etc. I just cannot do this, he sounds sincere about it, but I just cannot do ... (read in full...)

I'm not in love with my husband any more, please help...

Q.   I need some advice please. My husband is just hateful and full of anger, nothing abusive. I left him once 2 years ago, which I use to be the one crying and begging all the time, now it's him, not as much crying as telling me how much I am "his ...

A.   29 January 2009: He has refused to go to counseling. I really want this just to be over, but he just bawls his eyes out every time I mention it, then we try to work it out and he goes back to the same old way he always is and it just seems like a rerun every time. I ... (read in full...)

I'm not in love with my husband any more, please help...

Q.   I need some advice please. My husband is just hateful and full of anger, nothing abusive. I left him once 2 years ago, which I use to be the one crying and begging all the time, now it's him, not as much crying as telling me how much I am "his ...

A.   26 January 2009: I'm not sure how much more of this nonsense I can take. He has now went through my daughters checkbook questioning me about her money, she makes a little, not much. Telling me she better not be giving it to her "worthless, good for nothing, sorry ... (read in full...)

I'm not in love with my husband any more, please help...

Q.   I need some advice please. My husband is just hateful and full of anger, nothing abusive. I left him once 2 years ago, which I use to be the one crying and begging all the time, now it's him, not as much crying as telling me how much I am "his ...

A.   21 January 2009: Ok, I will make this last effort, it's really been hard for me, the way I have been treated, to even feel love anymore, it's so hard, I just feel crushed inside. I will keep you posted, I mean, when you do everything for someone and it just isn't ... (read in full...)

I'm not in love with my husband any more, please help...

Q.   I need some advice please. My husband is just hateful and full of anger, nothing abusive. I left him once 2 years ago, which I use to be the one crying and begging all the time, now it's him, not as much crying as telling me how much I am "his ...

A.   21 January 2009: He has told me that separation is absolutely out of the question, if he leaves, it will be for good, so now I am stuck in this position, i haven't talked to him all day and really don't want to. This separation is not an option to him, so I'm just ... (read in full...)

I'm not in love with my husband any more, please help...

Q.   I need some advice please. My husband is just hateful and full of anger, nothing abusive. I left him once 2 years ago, which I use to be the one crying and begging all the time, now it's him, not as much crying as telling me how much I am "his ...

A.   21 January 2009: Well, I just dont know whats wrong with me. I finally told him that we need to separate for a while, he will not do it, he said if it's separation, he will not come back. He wants to "compromise", I have heard this for years and it never works. Then ... (read in full...)

I'm not in love with my husband any more, please help...

Q.   I need some advice please. My husband is just hateful and full of anger, nothing abusive. I left him once 2 years ago, which I use to be the one crying and begging all the time, now it's him, not as much crying as telling me how much I am "his ...

A.   11 December 2008: Well, I'm just going to have to get strong I guess and get out of this. If you could have seen and heard what happened I know all of you would just be stunned. I will try to sum it up as short as I can. He came in from work, I looked at him and he ... (read in full...)

I'm not in love with my husband any more, please help...

Q.   I need some advice please. My husband is just hateful and full of anger, nothing abusive. I left him once 2 years ago, which I use to be the one crying and begging all the time, now it's him, not as much crying as telling me how much I am "his ...

A.   11 December 2008: The drink I fix is just normal tea, we will be married 20 years this July, we are 27 and 39. I understand regarding head of household and all. It's just he shouldn't feel threatened by a 17 yr old child that is my daughter's boyfriend, and feel ... (read in full...)

I'm not in love with my husband any more, please help...

Q.   I need some advice please. My husband is just hateful and full of anger, nothing abusive. I left him once 2 years ago, which I use to be the one crying and begging all the time, now it's him, not as much crying as telling me how much I am "his ...

A.   10 December 2008: I'm am at my wits end again, I feel so pathetic. I thought things would work, like I always have. Let me give you a couple examples and get your thoughts. We recently added text messaging to our family phones, which took forever to get him to agree. ... (read in full...)

I'm not in love with my husband any more, please help...

Q.   I need some advice please. My husband is just hateful and full of anger, nothing abusive. I left him once 2 years ago, which I use to be the one crying and begging all the time, now it's him, not as much crying as telling me how much I am "his ...

A.   28 October 2008: Thank you both for your advice, it has helped. My son is the one that notices alot, asking me why he talks mean to me and that his daddy is gripy. But now, since I have just felt completely numb towards my husband, my son has asked me why I am ... (read in full...)

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