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My name is Kay, I'm 21 years old and I live in little ol' Wales in the UK.

I have many years of experiences dealing with relationships as well as sexual health problems and I like to think I give advice that is fair and honest.

I have an A-Level in Psychology and Sociology, and I am now studying for my degree in Psychology and Counselling. I think people are absolutely fascinating and wonderful and complex. It is my hope that I become a professional therapist of some sort one day and help people the best I can.

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now. We've had our ups and downs but we're still going on strong. I've had many friend, family and relationship problems in my past but all this experience has made me a lot stronger and I hope to pass on my knowledge.

I'm really easy to talk to but I will only ever give advice to people who want to hear the truth, not what they want to hear. If you ever have a question about anything, I will 100% answer it to the best of my ability :)

I'm ashamed of my sexual past and worried about STD's....

Q.   When i was 11 years old i lost both my parents and i had to live with my granny. She waz very stingy and 2 much strict and she abused me and my little sister because she doesn't love our father's family. At the age of 15 i startf drinking alchohol ...

A.   21 September 2012: I wont judge because we all make mistakes but I will say what you have done is pretty reckless. Being depressed and stressed out is no excuse when it comes to having sex unprotected. I wouldn't be surprised if you had more than 1 STD and I'm even... (read in full...)

Why is this guy doing this to me and how do I stop him and his friends?

Q.   At first I thought this guy was cool and we could be friends. However I found out he as talking saying not so nice things about me like how I'm so into him and made me sound like a weird creep. He also seemed to start rumors that I like him. I do ...

A.   21 September 2012: There's nothing you can do to actually stop it straight away. You have to let people know that you aren't phased by it. When those people say those things, they're trying to get a reaction out of you because they know that they can wind you up b... (read in full...)

My boyfriend enjoys a sexual act that causes me a lot of pain, I ask him not to but he threatens and does it anyway.

Q.   I have a boyfriend who is really into a certain sexual act. I wont divulge too much because of the ages of some on this site. That being said, due to his size, this act is extremely painful and I don't like it. The problem is, he does like it, re...

A.   17 September 2012: You need to put your foot down and tell him no. A proper boyfriend would never threaten to do this to you sexually and then do it even though you said no. May I ask why leaving him isn't an option?... (read in full...)

I cheated on him 4 times when we were first together, we are now in love and wanting to get married....should I come clean?

Q.   Hello Everyone..I need urgent help regarding this question...I broke up with a guy after being in a relationship for six years..This changed my life.. i became very careless regarding love and lusted for every single guy i knew..I started dating a ...

A.   17 September 2012: Exactly what iAmHereToHelpYou has said. Your current boyfriend needs to know the things that you have done while you were with him. If you truly believe that you have changed then there is no need to tell your future husband about your mistakes in a ... (read in full...)

I cheated on him 4 times when we were first together, we are now in love and wanting to get married....should I come clean?

Q.   Hello Everyone..I need urgent help regarding this question...I broke up with a guy after being in a relationship for six years..This changed my life.. i became very careless regarding love and lusted for every single guy i knew..I started dating a ...

A.   17 September 2012: If you're feeling guilty now, then that will never go away. You have to think about how this will affect him. Put yourself in his shoes. You love him to bits and you treat him right and give him everything that he deserves but he has cheated ... (read in full...)

Guys, is Virginity really important to you? I'm scared to lose my virginity. But wish I had.

Q.   I am not a person who goes with the crowd but most of the time, I am scared of losing my virginity before marriage. Now I probably regret not having sex when I was younger, because I had always wanted to have sex. What's the difference even ...

A.   7 September 2012: Virginity is what ever you want it to be. I lost mine when I was 15 and to be honest I don't really regret it. I did it with someone who I was so comfortable and happy with and that's all you really need. Do I regret it? Sometimes. Even though h... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's friend was hitting on me so I told my boyfriend, he got angry saying it was my fault!

Q.   i dont know if im over reacting. I used to talk to my bf's bestfriend just a conversation stuff like that than all of a sudden he starts hitting on me telling me to come visit him, have a few and mess around and telling me not to tell him about ...

A.   7 September 2012: You have done nothing wrong. Shame on your bf's best friend for even saying those things and more shame that your boyfriend did nothing. You are not over-reacting so don't you dare blame yourself. Like you said, you were just trying to get to... (read in full...)

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