He says he wants to be friends only, but he seems to want more
Q. I've never done this before, but I always come to this site so I figured I'd try... I met this guy in August. Initially I had my doubts, but I put aside the superficials and really looked at him as a person and began to fall for him. The phys...
A. 21 November 2009: Hi
Honey, yes you are being delusional. The oh so sweet guys, the ones who are always upfront and honest about the other girls that they are seeing, and just how they won't be able to commit to the relationship..but will very sweetly be gene... (read in full...)
Ex still wants sexual favors... WHY?
Q. my bf and I live together but have just recently broken up. He asks me for hand-jobs, why? We are broken up but he asks me for hand jobs and also asked me if I still want something from him. I said I don't want anything sexual from him because we ...
A. 21 November 2009: So, basically, you wanted us to tell you that he is looking to get back with you... since he asked you for sexual favors.
Hmmmm.... well, but that is hardly the case honey. In fact, his asking you for sexual favor is the prime reason for you to d... (read in full...)
Has anybody taken a break and everything worked out in the end?
Q. Ok so I'm 23 my bfs 25 we were dating for 4 months yet we have gone thru so much in so little time... yet he asked for space to make sure what he wants n to see if he's ready to make the next step which is marriage, yea sounds fast but we know each ...
A. 20 November 2009: Hi
No. I have never heard of someone saying that they are taking a break from their partners and then come back and things were hunky dory. What issues can one resolve on their own, when it is related to the two of them together?
I mean, if he ha... (read in full...)
Do you think he got me a ring for Christmas?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 3 years mow. Things have been beyond wonderful lately, we're both going to school, and working towards our future. He also mentions kids and marriage in a few years, but doesn't like long engagements. ...
A. 20 November 2009: Hey, don't count your chickens before they hatch luv.
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What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...
A. 20 November 2009: Hi
I for one can't wait to read your follow-up. See how you react to the wonderful advices posted here.
Seriously, you got a really unique way of working on your marriage, you know! ... (read in full...)
Fifteen and I want a baby now! Mature advice needed.
Q. Please help. I'm quite mature, and I have support from my family and friends. I've always wanted a baby, since I have hit puberty, I think of what it would be like, and how hard it'd be but at the same time how wonderful it'd be. I know it costs a ...
A. 20 November 2009: Hi
I would advise you to check the website that satin has posted in her answer.
Also, try caring for babies for a while, since this isn't something you can check out of you know. Motherhood is a permanent thing, and at your age, people will not... (read in full...)
Ex still wants sexual favors... WHY?
Q. my bf and I live together but have just recently broken up. He asks me for hand-jobs, why? We are broken up but he asks me for hand jobs and also asked me if I still want something from him. I said I don't want anything sexual from him because we ...
A. 20 November 2009: Hi
Tell him that you pay the rent too! And really, send him packing the next time he tries that.
Of course, if I were you, I'd look for another place, since you know, I'd be wondering when making out (etc) with a new guy, would I be fulfilli... (read in full...)
Are they husband and wife?Cousins? Or brother and sister?
Q. My son married my best friends daughter a few yrs ago and have a kid. 5 months ago i hooked up with my friend and now she is expecting our kid. How do we figure this out. The new baby will be both our kids half sibling making them not only related ...
A. 19 November 2009: Hi
Well, I don't really know if I am helping here, but, indulge me...
How about my telling you guys that you all are Family. Address one another by names (as in, on the First name basis), and let it all just work itself out?
And congrats on ... (read in full...)
Please help me... he hits me on a regular basis...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, i love him very much even though he hits me on a regular basis, I'm 17 he is 23 so when he does this to me i cant stand up for myself because hes too strong, i cant leave him because i have no one else to ...
A. 19 November 2009: Hi
Hunny, I sympathize with you and all my love to you. But baby you are too young to begin your life in such a battered state.
Please take the numbers that the Fem Anon posted here, and call someone. There are too many women here that have alr... (read in full...)
Should I tell my family I'm gay?
Q. [Moderator Note: OP, there isn't a third gender. If there were, threesomes would be much less messy.] hello to everyone. i need your advice. please tell me what to do to overcome this problem that i am facing now. i belong to a third gender(gay...
A. 19 November 2009: Hi
You, being gay is perfectly fine. And like the Mod's note here says, being gay doesn't make you any less of a man (or a woman). Many people through history have either been gay or bisexual and in many cultures, like the ancient Greece, this was ... (read in full...)
I'm in love... with a dead woman!!!
Q. Ok people...this might sound insane but i cant help it. About a year back i saw a picture of a girl and read her life story and i think i am falling over for her. I think i am in love... but the catch is... she died way back during the second ...
A. 19 November 2009: Hi
Please do not try to resurrect her. Instead look for her reincarnation. She may have been reborn as a dog or a cat or a snail... but, never mind that, if your love is true you will find her. Just keep calling her. Better if you sing to her.... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 18 November 2009: Duce are you talking from/about the "Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy"? ... (read in full...)
Should I smoke pot before sex?
Q. Would smoking pot before having sex make it hurt less the first time?...
A. 18 November 2009: And,I would be LMBO at my man... (it makes me giggly)... (read in full...)
Am I a normal 17 year old?
Q. always, whenever i see a girl or a woman, my eyes first of all go to her breasts. i want to ask is this normal ? do other guys also have this ? i am 17...
A. 18 November 2009: Hi
Forgive me... I somehow thought that this question was posted by someone from India.
I do beg your pardon. sorry.
And, yes you are normal.
take care ... (read in full...)
I'm in love... with a dead woman!!!
Q. Ok people...this might sound insane but i cant help it. About a year back i saw a picture of a girl and read her life story and i think i am falling over for her. I think i am in love... but the catch is... she died way back during the second ...
A. 18 November 2009: Hi
I think that there are plenty of us who carry a flame in their hearts for those glamorous people that are no longer alive. But, then we don't lose sight of the truth... which is... that they are dead and we are alive. As long as it is conf... (read in full...)
Am I a normal 17 year old?
Q. always, whenever i see a girl or a woman, my eyes first of all go to her breasts. i want to ask is this normal ? do other guys also have this ? i am 17...
A. 16 November 2009: *wink* ... (read in full...)
Am I a normal 17 year old?
Q. always, whenever i see a girl or a woman, my eyes first of all go to her breasts. i want to ask is this normal ? do other guys also have this ? i am 17...
A. 16 November 2009: Hey,
Besides, how would you feel if a teen 17yr old girl went on staring at your penis or your testicles???? ... (read in full...)
Am I a normal 17 year old?
Q. always, whenever i see a girl or a woman, my eyes first of all go to her breasts. i want to ask is this normal ? do other guys also have this ? i am 17...
A. 16 November 2009: Hi
I agree with Fem Anon... Since I have been know to check out a pair or two...for purely curious reasons (you know, are her's better than mine sort of thing) and once or twice to establish that the girl is really a girl and not a guy! (what can ... (read in full...)
Please share one of the things you loved to do as a child with us!
Q. HI Guys!!! In one of my countries (India) It is Children's Day. And Today, I would like to remind us all about that little child within, who might perhaps have been standing in a corner... blocked with all the grown up concerns! SO, to free th...
A. 15 November 2009: Oh Thank You
I just got back from visiting them. It is 8.48 pm here and well, the day was tough.
(and that is all that I am giving away).
Hopefully, in the next twenty years or so, we will be able to make some difference.
I have my fingers ... (read in full...)
Please share one of the things you loved to do as a child with us!
Q. HI Guys!!! In one of my countries (India) It is Children's Day. And Today, I would like to remind us all about that little child within, who might perhaps have been standing in a corner... blocked with all the grown up concerns! SO, to free th...
A. 15 November 2009: Hey, Thank You all for sharing these very precious memories with me.
Since today I need to talk to the children of the Sex Workers and see that they too get their right to equal education, without being stigmatized and ostracized from the soci... (read in full...)
What would you say if your 16 year old daughter asked for a hotel room?
Q. Hey, this question is mainly aimed at mum's opinions but any others are welcome, and I'd rather you say what you think within reason and without too much of a lecture thanks. Basically, I've been with my boyfriend 1 year 8 months, I'm fifteen and ...
A. 14 November 2009: Hi
To tell you the truth, I think that it is worth a try. I mean, it is at least practical that you should ask her for something that you truly want than really wasting her money... as you yourself very wisely suggested. After all, if you are goin... (read in full...)
Life as someone's slave is hard, especially when they treat you worse than a bit of shit on their shoe!
Q. if i knew what to do i wouldn't be here but i need help and advice the man i'm with has left me with no friends and feeling like my life isn't important enough to discuss sometimes i feel if i start talking who'd actually listen. i'm with my pa...
A. 14 November 2009: Hi
All my love and sympathies. But, darling, if you indulge him any longer, it will get worse, I can't imagine anything worse than this one, though!
You feel weak and that is what makes him feel strong. He lives off of your fear. If you stop fee... (read in full...)
What else can I do to get rid of him once and for all?
Q. I'm the biggest idiot ever. I've given this guy I'm with sooo many chances and we made a new start, like forgetting the past etc. I did that no problem but he just won't forget anything! I slept with a REALLY close mate of mine while we weren't...
A. 14 November 2009: Hi
Go to the police. This does seem to be slightly serious. A threat should be taken seriously. Besides, how long before your face replaces that wall he punched?
And delaying this will mean that you are scared of him and that is what bullies ... (read in full...)
Please share one of the things you loved to do as a child with us!
Q. HI Guys!!! In one of my countries (India) It is Children's Day. And Today, I would like to remind us all about that little child within, who might perhaps have been standing in a corner... blocked with all the grown up concerns! SO, to free th...
A. 14 November 2009: Hey, if I could be, I would have welcomed you with arms wide open! Don't think that I haven't heard of the Scottish love of Hospitality and their loyalty and courage and friendliness! ... (read in full...)
Am I right or wrong for agreeing to have sex with him?
Q. hiii......i have frnd named sunny.we are family frnds.i know him from my childhood.he is a very good frnd of mine.he undrstands me in every situation.at first i used to be a good frnd of him,then without my notice i became very affectionate of him.i ...
A. 14 November 2009: Hi
Me again... and he was never your's to lose, how can you lose someone you've never had. All you had with him is friendship and he should respect the sanctity of it. Instead of wanting to take advantage of you. These feelings for him will pass... (read in full...)
Am I right or wrong for agreeing to have sex with him?
Q. hiii......i have frnd named sunny.we are family frnds.i know him from my childhood.he is a very good frnd of mine.he undrstands me in every situation.at first i used to be a good frnd of him,then without my notice i became very affectionate of him.i ...
A. 14 November 2009: Hi
Darling, I am going to examine this situation for you, ok. So, you are in love with a guy who already has a girlfriend and he doesn't want to give up on her. He says that he loves you too and since she proposed first, so he is going to stay with... (read in full...)
I'm 24, hot and still a virgin
Q. I am a very attractive 24 year old female virgin and I’m ashamed that I have yet to be intimate with someone. I have never been in a serious relationship and have never done anything more than kiss. I am worried that when I find a guy I want to have ...
A. 14 November 2009: Honey, so am I! And loving it. And no, I don't think that it would turn a man off... rather it will make him walk around with a strut and the confidence of wooing one of the few last good women! It is actually quite healthy, and really, it is called ... (read in full...)
Please share one of the things you loved to do as a child with us!
Q. HI Guys!!! In one of my countries (India) It is Children's Day. And Today, I would like to remind us all about that little child within, who might perhaps have been standing in a corner... blocked with all the grown up concerns! SO, to free th...
A. 14 November 2009: Oh yes, an update on my situation... Since I live in Kathmandu so, I am exactly 12hrs ahead of the US. It is 7.24 here, and I am home. Grimy, tired and blissfully happy. We (as in my boyfriend and myself), went on a trek to a nearby hill, starting ... (read in full...)
Please share one of the things you loved to do as a child with us!
Q. HI Guys!!! In one of my countries (India) It is Children's Day. And Today, I would like to remind us all about that little child within, who might perhaps have been standing in a corner... blocked with all the grown up concerns! SO, to free th...
A. 14 November 2009: As promised.. Thanking you guys personally... (sorry, my PM is disabled for the time being)!
Gina, Scotland is a beautiful beautiful place, with its forts and vast green lands and friendly people. It is among the top ten places that I wish to ... (read in full...)
Is it weird to make a silicone doll of my girlfriend?
Q. Hi Agony Aunts! I have an interesting question that I want to ask. Well I love my girlfriend so much that I would want to do something grand. I am planning on making a life-size doll version of my girlfriend in silicone like the ones I have seen ...
A. 14 November 2009: Hey,
An Indian Emperor built one of the seven wonders of the world, the Taj Mahal to immortalize his wife. Of course, we can't all afford that (don't we women wish, though)... Mt boyfriend built a full life sculpture of myself with fries and proc... (read in full...)
He just up and left me after I helped him. His excuse: I accused him of cheating!
Q. i let my boyfriend of six months come stay with me 3 months ago when he lost his place and soon after his job. at the begin i was thinking he was cheating because females used to always call his phone but the calls stopped after he moved in. then ...
A. 14 November 2009: Hi
I did not understand what you posted dear. So, if you could re-post your update, I'd have a better idea of your current situation. ... (read in full...)
How can a man approaching his forties age gracefully?
Q. Hi I'm a 37 year old male. I've been told I look good for my age by several people (mainly female). However, my looks are changing, body etc. I look after myself as best as I can. But I'm aging (godammit), as is everybody else. I know it's ...
A. 14 November 2009: Cheers!!!
If you guys set a wonderful precedent of looking graceful and dignified with age... Then us younger folks will be that much more open to aging!!! So, you see, this one is for the younger generation! LOL
No, kidding. It takes a remarkab... (read in full...)
He just up and left me after I helped him. His excuse: I accused him of cheating!
Q. i let my boyfriend of six months come stay with me 3 months ago when he lost his place and soon after his job. at the begin i was thinking he was cheating because females used to always call his phone but the calls stopped after he moved in. then ...
A. 13 November 2009: Wow!
He is a jerk. And thankfully, you will be spared the shame of crying over his sorry a** because you have bigger troubles to deal with. If I were you, I'd ask him to pay up for the last three months of food and rent and other damages...
Serio... (read in full...)
I can't compete with his ex.
Q. Dear All, I have been with my fiance for two years but I cannot get over HIS Ex. When he and I met, he had been single for two years after breaking up with the first woman he was ever emotionally involved with. He lived with her and her child ...
A. 13 November 2009: Hi
Yeah, what's the point of bathing? It's already been done yesterday? And what is point of reading? That too has been done. And wow, looking at people.. well, everyone does it, helloooo Boooorrring!
And really what is the point of taking t... (read in full...)
How can I help my girlfriend with all her issues?
Q. I am 21 and I am with my girlfriend, my sweetheart for 2 years now. we love each other a lot. I want her to be extremely happy, singing and dancing as she is always therefore I am a concerned about a problem that is affecting her. She has been ...
A. 13 November 2009: Hey, it touches me to know that you love your girlfriend more than life itself. Right now, I am wondering whether my boyfriend loves me more than the pizza he ate! LOL...
I think that your girlfriend is deeply disturbed by it. (kinda obvious,... (read in full...)
Why are men more attracted to me since I have turned 13?
Q. since i turned 13 years, lots of male friends such as my old and new friends, classmates, even teachers etc... have been asking me to be their girl friend. some of them are obsess of me. sometimes they are so annoying. are they crazy? how will i ...
A. 13 November 2009: Hi
When someone is serious about you and when you are ready to be in a relationship, you will know. Your heart will let you know. And, please tell your teachers to stay away from you, ok.
What is different? Well, you have only just begun to be ... (read in full...)
He showed no concern when I had a miscarriage and I am at the stage where I no longer know what to say to him, should I leave?
Q. I have asked for help before and always received helpful and unbiased advice. My problem stems from the fact that I feel that I have not been treated very well and would like other peoples views on whether I should leave this relationship. I was ...
A. 13 November 2009: Hi
When a woman miscarries (soooo sorry about that), and the man whose baby it was doesn't feel a thing for her, then I'd say that the man will never feel anything for the lady. He did cancel the wedding saying that he wasn't ready and now is dist... (read in full...)
Should I be jealous of this picture with my boyfriend being kissed by another girl?
Q. So this is a question of whether or not i should be jealous, i opened my fb and i see a tagged picture of my bf, with a girl giving him a big side smooch on his cheek, but thats it, no other picture. for some reason im not bothered but i feel like ...
A. 13 November 2009: Hi
Perhaps it is a joke? But if it is bothering you then ask him... truth is sometimes less grotesque than fiction. Just casually mention it to him and ask his reasons, if there weren't one, and he just wanted to thought of as a stud.. then tell... (read in full...)
How should I avoid him? And what should I do to completely forget that man?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm mentally tortured and need your help badly. The agony of my life started when I've met him and we became close to each other. I thought he is a gentleman guy as he revealed to me all his past. He was married with one daughter...
A. 13 November 2009: HI
Well, you fell right into the trap didn't you? A few small smses, birthday wish and you fall into his lap like an overripe fruit... can you blame him for using you? That too at your age? Where have you been living? Did you not know that men woul... (read in full...)
Why don't I always get the right guys?
Q. i am into a relationship now this probably my 5th relationship after 4 heart breaks we have jst datted for 3 months and we had a minor misunderstanding bacause he didn't cal me for 5 days i got angry cos it's very unusual of him,so wen he eventually ...
A. 13 November 2009: Hi
I just answered on your question, "why does my boyfriend want sex all the time"...
Well, then I can't help putting two and two together. So, your boyfriend wants sex all the time and ignores you while he is working etc. Seems like this might be... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 13 November 2009: Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 13 November 2009: (that was the most perfect quip ever, Mal)... I am in stitches already... ... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 12 November 2009: These Boots are Made for Knocking...
And that is Just what they will do...... (read in full...)
How can a man approaching his forties age gracefully?
Q. Hi I'm a 37 year old male. I've been told I look good for my age by several people (mainly female). However, my looks are changing, body etc. I look after myself as best as I can. But I'm aging (godammit), as is everybody else. I know it's ...
A. 10 November 2009: Hi
Okay as a woman who dies get attracted to Older men, I will tell you exactly what I like in them.
First, Act your Age. An older man should look and act his age, instead of trying (consciously and desperately to look and act younger). You are ... (read in full...)
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