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Am I over reacting? My husband's been having outburts that make no sense. It this the start of domestic abuse?

Q.   I have been with my husband for five years, married for two of them. He is usually helpful, polite, funny and affectionate. In the last three years, there have been outbursts that made no sense. In the first one, he started an argument when we ...

A.   6 June 2019: I know that it has been a few years since I posted my question1 But I would just like to provide and update. We have both had marriage counseling, and have moved to a different area where hubby has a low stress job (the other one was destroying him, ... (read in full...)

He's abusive. Why do I take him back, even though I know he is not good for me?

Q.   Dear Cupid Where do I start? I was with my ex was 4 years. Earlier it used be fun, for past few months the verbal emotional abuse is more than I can take. He withdraws affection and love. Makes me beg with him to even talk to me, at last talks to...

A.   26 October 2014: I had an abusive ex many years ago. Like WhenCowsAttack says, it is familiar territory, albeit not happy territory, which is why you find it hard to leave him. A good book to read is called "Getting Free," by Ginny NiCarthy. This book became m... (read in full...)

Am I over reacting? My husband's been having outburts that make no sense. It this the start of domestic abuse?

Q.   I have been with my husband for five years, married for two of them. He is usually helpful, polite, funny and affectionate. In the last three years, there have been outbursts that made no sense. In the first one, he started an argument when we ...

A.   19 July 2014: First, thanks for all the cool replies! I'd like to say that I called the local domestic violence shelter the next day while he was at work. I had a good talk with a counselor there, and she gave me some advice on what to do if it happens again. I ... (read in full...)

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