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Will taking anti-biotics reduce your chances of becoming fertile?

Q.   Im so sorry for bothering all you wonderful people. This is what i should have included in my previous question posted a few hours back. I just want you guys to confirm the reality to this: will taking anti-biotics reduce your chances of becoming ...

A.   25 June 2008: Oh Smiles! Lol wel i only asked because i felt it was important that i know but you got it spot on, having a baby is certainly NOT my next option. Im sure you saw my very first posting here about a week ago on how my bf wants a baby and my feed... (read in full...)

Is it safe to have sex if you are taking anti-biotics?

Q.   Hey guys! I never asked my doctor the last time i went.. I just wana know if is it safe to have sex if you are taking anti-biotics? Won't it affect your partner's health or your's in any way? Your reply will be very much appreciated....

A.   24 June 2008: Thanks guys for the reply, bt i think there's something else that i forgot to ask to this question. Is it true that taking anti-biotics will reduce your chances of fertility? Well, let me post this as a question though.. Please please reply if you ... (read in full...)

What my man doesn't know won't hurt him or am I walking in quick sand?

Q.   Hi. I got a bf, i do love him very much but we stay away from each other and only get to see once in two weeks when he comes home. Now this guy around my area is proposing me. He seems good and loving and wouldn't do things to force me in anyway. ...

A.   24 June 2008: Tanks guys for replying to my question.. Infact, i was with this guy again yesterday. Well, i can't pursue a relationship with him anymore, i had enough time to rethink this and this is the decision i took. Im satisfied with my bf, he's what i want. ... (read in full...)

We were stupid and the condom came off....

Q.   hi, i had sex my bf last week saturday 12/06 and we have used condom.but for some reason we stopped using it so he put his pennis inside me for abut three second. is der any chance of me getting pregnant.my last period was on the 3rd june. plz help...

A.   21 June 2008: Oh well, that had happened to me as well. Never got pregnant! But you need to know from him if he did cum inside you, if he did not then you may not be pregnant.. But girl, pre-cum can get you pregnant. You have not yet had your period till todate? ... (read in full...)

I am having trouble reaching an orgasm with my boyfriend. Please help.

Q.   I am having trouble having an orgasm with my b/f. It's so annoying because if i watch males stripping on videos, I can orgasm instantly thru masturbation very easily (5 minutes). He even went down on me and though it felt amazing and him touc...

A.   21 June 2008: After smiles' answer, need i say more? Its very true that concentrating on orgasming will only give you negative results. Do you know what wonders the clit stimulation can do you? Let your bf concentrate on your clitoris, it can really amaze you. ... (read in full...)

The condom broke and I got my period the very next day, any chances of pregnancy?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend were having sex when the condom broke, Now I got my period the very next day and had a normal period except for the odd fact that I had severly bad cramps for two days. Is it possible I could be pregnant? I don't feel like it,...

A.   21 June 2008: Of cause its all in your head girlfriend. I agree with Tremor. Your period could've been due the very next day when u had it and with your period happening the very next day, you would have ovulated about 14 or 15 days back. In 5 weeks a period is ... (read in full...)

Small bumps on my vaginal area, I'm afraid to go to the doctor!

Q.   yes i have small bumps on my vaginal area at the end where the hair stop befor it enters to your clit...im afraid to go to the doctor to me they look like skin tags...can some help n tell me what u guys think they are please!!!!...

A.   21 June 2008: Thanks for being so brave to post this question here. I'm of the same age group as you, gets very concerned about my health and i jump on both my feet when i sense something is goin bad with my health. 2 months back i had what u are discribing right ... (read in full...)

I felt nothing when we had sex...what should I do??

Q.   hey my bf is 22 and i am 17 we have had sex and i felt nothing what should i do he is 8.5inches long and 3 inches thick what should i do since i felt nothing?...

A.   20 June 2008: Huh! Nothing at all? Im sorry.. What did he say?... (read in full...)

I don't want to lose my potential life time partner because of the baby issue...

Q.   Hi. Im in an eleven months relationship with a guy who truly loves me and the marriage issue has always popped up. He recently got a job away from home. Im at university, just completed my diploma and willing to start with my degree. He has met ...

A.   20 June 2008: Thanks guys for your time. I knew how to tackle this one.. Ya'll knew it too right? I think i just needed a little assurance, especially from the ladies! Well my guy has come around now and he said he'll wait for me(x)(x)(x) but ya'll know that im ... (read in full...)

Cyber-Sex - Cheating Or Not?

Q.   This has been on my mind after someone mentioned to me that she had cyber-sex with someone who wasn't her boyfriend without her boyfriend knowing about it. We've all seen or heard about someone (maybe even yourself) participating in cyber-sex, ri...

A.   20 June 2008: If this would hurt had it been turned on you, then thats cheating. And i think you also got the answer that your looking for. You said those are things ONLY YOUR BF HAS TO SEE.. So certainly!!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to have sex with me!?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have sex very often. but lately he doesnt seem as though he wants too. he even told me he didnt care if i had sex with someone else. that was really hurtful, and i know he has mood swings and says things out of anger, but could ...

A.   19 June 2008: Oh yes, we all need sexual setisfation atleast once in a while:) For all i know, ur partner could be having some sexual problem. He probably realised this and is not willing to tel u or maybe hurt you with it. I think you should try hard girl, talk ... (read in full...)

Should I forgive her or stay mad at her for kissing my boyfriend while we were drunk?

Q.   my friend and i were at this party, with my boyfriend( but he wasnt my boyfriend at the time) and we all ended up getting really drunk with this other guy. and we all ended up making out with eachother. my friend had a boyfriend at the time, and i ...

A.   19 June 2008: Look, the real truth is even when we get drunk we still know what is wrong and what is not. It's not appreciated for someone who claims to be a friend to go kissing your bf, he's your's not her's.. And for the fact that you wer not yet in a ... (read in full...)

Is this abusive behavior. I feel useless !

Q.   After a wonderful one year relationship i moved in with my girlfriend. Now it seems i can't do anything right. She criticizes me for the littlest things like how i fold the bathroom towels, the way i wash up and dry, how i make the bed, where i ...

A.   19 June 2008: Damn! She sure as hell isn't your mother! Your gf is very controlling, i thought i wer controlling but ur girl is just over the top! For what i know, guys don't appreciate a treatment of that kind. You need to have yourself someone whose gonna ... (read in full...)

Any phone conversation tips?

Q.   What are some good topics to talk about over the phone with your lover?...

A.   19 June 2008: Mhmm.. I bet u in some new relationship yea? Ok, iv been in this one too. Why don't you guys talk about the tings he likes, especially in a girl. Then you are able to see if you do match to what he suggest is his kind of girl. If u wana knw how he ... (read in full...)

I don't know whether to stay in this relationship after I found out about his attempt at cheating!

Q.   Ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and half years. But im starting to think am i paranoid. To cut a long story short we have a bit of an up/down relationship but what ever happens we battle through. Reasently i have be come supicious o...

A.   19 June 2008: Personaly, i think u've been in this relationship for long and i can imagine how hard it is for you to let go especially if u still love him. If it were me i would stay with my guy but threaten to leave if he wouldn't admit the truth on top of all ... (read in full...)

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