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Lust for youth minister!

Q.   hello, for 1 1/2 years i have been wanting, needding to have sex with my youth minister. it all started when she held me late one night to help clean up the building. and she leaned over exposing major cleavage. i feel like i'll ha...

A.   11 March 2010: Thank you Caring Guy. It sounds to me like you have a serious problem that you need to talk with the pastor about. If you are having this feeling as you described you may end up doing something you regret. Now I know that teen boys have sex, god ... (read in full...)

I only like guys twice my age

Q.   Okay, well, I seem to have a problem. I'm a 16 year old girl, still in High School and everything. However, I'm attracted to men who are rather older than I (mainly older than 23, most of the time around 30). Guys my age just don't keep my ...

A.   11 March 2010: No you are not weird, evil, or a monster. I am 35 and in a relationship with an 18 year girl. For Anon over their it's not because i want to control her it is because as a doctor now I am ready to start a family and there is an extreme risk for ... (read in full...)

My father says he will disown me if I date a black man!

Q.   My dad said he'll disown me if I ever bring a black guy home(I'm white and don't live with my mom). I'm attracted to guys of all races, and I find myself being attracted to black guys, more than white guys. Until I knew where my dad stands on the ...

A.   11 March 2010: I heard someone once say that it is cruel and wrong for a black and white couple to be together because their child would be mixed race and have a harder time. This MAY be an issue where you live. That is something to consider. Would you move away ... (read in full...)

I fell in love with my cousin! How do I handle this?

Q.   People I need your advice here? My 1st cousin and I are really in love and he is 5 yrs older than me.we never really told each other that we did because it felt strange.It all started like this...My family moved to his town when I was like 10...we ...

A.   11 March 2010: I am going to say the most unpopular thing here, but there are places where first cousins can marry. However be prepared for a good chunk of your family to disown you. I don't them and you might get lucky. My best friend growing up married his first ... (read in full...)

My friend wants to send our teacher a love letter.

Q.   One of my friends has got a huge crush on a teacher and she wants to send him a love letter. Well, I think it's a stupid idea and she'll just get herself in big trouble. What do you think about sending a teacher a love letter?...

A.   11 March 2010: The law in the United Sates is that a teacher involved with a student in a public school, even if that student is 18 or over is commuting a felony. She probably would not get in any trouble except for her parents, but he could get in loads of ... (read in full...)

How do I get out of this? He is a serial cheater.

Q.   I have been in this relationship for far too long. However, it has turned into a game with me feeling jealous for valid reasons but never being able to prove it, so I am always told I am controlling, jealous etc. To make a long story short, I d...

A.   11 March 2010: Yes, leave him. You can use any of the suggested ways. The reason you need to leave him is your health. If he is this way there is no telling what he is going to bring home to you. A good friend of mine in high school trusted a guy she thought she ... (read in full...)

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