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40, confused and wondering...

Q.   Hello to all my very encouraging readers Here's an update...and a question! 7 months ago I moved to london like I said I would and have been lucky enough to find enough work.I have been applying for MA's in painting.I got an interview at a...

A.   23 July 2008: Her is a an update... Last year, after a 2 year failed relationship with  a man 10 years younger than myself i came  to london (from Germany) to do an MA in painting. The end of the relationship had thrown me into a bit of a depression and i lo... (read in full...)

40, confused and wondering...

Q.   Hello to all my very encouraging readers Here's an update...and a question! 7 months ago I moved to london like I said I would and have been lucky enough to find enough work.I have been applying for MA's in painting.I got an interview at a...

A.   16 March 2008: Thankyou for answering.It's a couple of days since i wrote the post and i suppose i have had time to think about my own question.I realise that if i was going to more social events then i would be meeting a variety of men and not have to wonder if ... (read in full...)

Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college

Q.   Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...

A.   12 March 2008: Hello to all my very encouraging readers Here's an update...and a question! 7 months ago I moved to london like I said I would and have been lucky enough to find enough work.I have been applying for MA's in painting.I got an interview at a v... (read in full...)

Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college

Q.   Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...

A.   20 March 2007: Eve..in case you are wondering about me...i am a late developer when it comes to relationships. I also never had a mum (died when i was 11). In many ways i am glad about that because i have had to find out most things for myself.i am also free to ... (read in full...)

Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college

Q.   Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...

A.   20 March 2007: Hallo Eve...i am anxious about us getting intimate,tonight!Mostly because i would love too and my feelings say he really wants me...but...i sound like a kid...but do you think i should avoid anything too close? I have not been able to look at ... (read in full...)

Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college

Q.   Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...

A.   19 March 2007: Dear Eve..i wanted to tell you that my painting is going to plan.It really is unbelievable what magic things happen once you know where you are going. The other wonderful thing is that "my boy" has been trying to get hold of me. I have'nt be... (read in full...)

Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college

Q.   Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...

A.   11 March 2007: Hallo Eve...unfortunately i cannot download the link you sent me because i have a Mac and for some reason it does not function. Would you care to tell me basically what the site is about? What is the basic message... ?I love things like that ... (read in full...)

He says his feelings towards me have changed but I would marry him in a heartbeat. Should I stick around and work on things or just go ahead and pull the plug now?

Q.   I moved in with my boyfriend about 5 months ago. He used to tell me that he wanted to be with just me and knew he would marry me one day. Since we moved in we have been arguing a lot more and he recently told me that he did not think he could marry ...

A.   7 March 2007: what you need to do is back off.That means get yourself engaged in other activities,passions,sport whatever...so that your interests are not only focused on him.he is probably feeling smothered and therefore wants out.it is all a game...remember ... (read in full...)

Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college

Q.   Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...

A.   2 March 2007: Dear Eve...last night i met a lady about 56 years old. She was similar to me in that she always had younger boyfreinds.She understood me i guess. Sometimes i feel like it's is stupid to carry on likeing younger men if my relationships often end the ... (read in full...)

Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college

Q.   Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...

A.   28 February 2007: Hi there..thankyou both for your wonderful words of encouragment. I don't know if i mentioned that i am 39 years old.He is 29.The latest news is that we still see each other, maybe not so often but i am not sleeping with him. I have said quite ... (read in full...)

Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college

Q.   Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...

A.   25 February 2007: I have chills running up and down my spine...Thank you for your positive and motivating responses. I will "go with it" and i will keep you informed!... (read in full...)

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