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Men - Can you hold and cuddle a woman all night if you don't really have any feelings for them??

Q.   Men - Can you hold and cuddle a woman all night if you don't really have any feelings for them?? My boyfriend and I snuggle up in bed at night but as yet he hasn't really made a passionate move on me! - He cannot be shy as he already has a child wi...

A.   16 April 2009: I think the fact that he cuddles you all night is a pretty good sign that he cares for you.... (read in full...)

I'm in love... but confused!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time now. I have stuck by him through a lot of problems he has had. He quit his job and is still unemployed. He drinks daily and has made it clear there is no way he will marry me anytime soon. ...

A.   16 April 2009: I think you should separate the two issues -- 1) do you want to break up with your boyfriend? and after that's settled, 2) do you want to date this new guy You need to resolve the first relationship before jumping into a second one. ... (read in full...)

She's back to the online cheating!

Q.   Well, It's been 11 days since our first anniversary. Last week, my wife had pledged to me that she would halt any communications with her ex completely becuase (1) She made a new profile and page and he found her again and (2) She discovered that ...

A.   11 April 2009: Wow, I really feel for you. I think the fact that she continues to post online profiles (despite promises to stop) means that she'll continue to do so without some sort of intervention. You should give her an ultimatum -- attend marriage cou... (read in full...)

Am I being silly? Is he leading me on?

Q.   I started a new job about 6 months ago, which is when I noticed a guy that caught my eye. I'm very fussy so was surprised that I actually liked him. I then found out that he had a girl friend. But having spoke to several others who I work with, he...

A.   11 April 2009: There's a really good article by Lisa Daily about your same dilemma here: http://lisadaily.com/datingexperttv/2009/04/ask-lisa-hes-flirting-with-me-at-the-office-but-he-has-a-girlfriend/ I think there's something fishy about his story -- it ... (read in full...)

Can love happen quickly?

Q.   So im just asking if i'm crazy. But i thinki found the perfect guy!!! he's silly, goofy, great with kids, has absolute loads of patience and when i'm around him i smile because i fancy him so. :) even my mother notices a different look in my eyes ...

A.   11 April 2009: Well, I'd say of all the people who wouldn't be thrilled to see you happy with another guy, it would be your ex. Be happy -- sometimes love does happen fast. Good luck!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend loves me but is trying to break up with me...

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are in a serious relationship. We have talked about marriage and know that we want to be with each other forever but the past month there have been some fights and things haven't been picture perfect. I see this as growing but he ...

A.   11 April 2009: I agree with Emily. If you chase him, call him, nag him, make him talk about how you're feeling, he'll shut down or take off. Your best course of action is to tell him you're giving him his space, and that you're going to move forward with you... (read in full...)

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