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She lied about talking with her ex, now I feel like it could happen again! How can I stop being so paranoid?

Q.   Hi My current girlfriend and i have been going out officially now since October 13th 06 but we have been talking online since May 06. We get along so well and have 95% of things in common and we are both very much in love and cant bare to be...

A.   22 February 2007: It is hard to get the trust back, but there's not much you can do. The kiss with the random stranger probably isnt relevant. I know it seems like something you should be concerned about, but she would have been very confused back then. If she had ... (read in full...)

She lied about talking with her ex, now I feel like it could happen again! How can I stop being so paranoid?

Q.   Hi My current girlfriend and i have been going out officially now since October 13th 06 but we have been talking online since May 06. We get along so well and have 95% of things in common and we are both very much in love and cant bare to be...

A.   20 February 2007: It's likely that she feels guilty about leaving him and so doesnt want to hurt him further by telling him to back off. Do you know what she says back to him? She may have already told him to leave her alone and he's ignored it. The only betrayal is ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and my breasts feel a bit tender and bruised, is this normal?

Q.   im 15 and I've noticed recently that my breast are feeling a bit tender almost like bruised at the sides near my arms.im not particularly big, a/b cup size. I no im definatly not pregnant or anything is this normal? ...

A.   20 February 2007: Mine always feel sore just before my period, so it could be that. Or possibly they could be growing, you're still young enough to be developing and if you've put on any weight lately that will increase their size. If you get really worried that ... (read in full...)

I don't love my wife, but if we get divorced she can't stay in the country! This is all my fault. What can I do??

Q.   First of all, let it be clear that I know I am the only one to blame for my situation and that most women will probably despise me. Nonetheless I want some advice on what I should do. Ok, well im married and live in the UK. My wife is foreign ...

A.   20 February 2007: Does your wife have any idea about any of this? You should tell her to make sure she can decide what's best for her. Possibly, if she isn't happy in the marriage either, then she'll be happy to have an open relationship before a divorce is possible. ... (read in full...)

I fancy this lad in my class but this other girl is always jumping all over him, tell me what to do and quick!

Q.   I fancy this lad in my class but when i talk to him im stuck for words and this girl also in my class ill call her J she allwayz jumps all over him when im talking to the lad i like please tell me what to do please and quick...

A.   20 February 2007: Does the girl know you fancy him? If so, she's obviously trying to make you feel bad/nervous about it. You need to act calmly and cooly about it, guys arent gonna go for a girl that wont leave them alone like she is. See if you can figure out what ... (read in full...)

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