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I am a qualified personal relationship counsellor.

I live in Spain now....1999....from UK

I write for 10 monthly magazines over here.

I have had a book published.

I am married.

I love a challenge.

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Now that he has me, he doesn't try anymore! Help!

Q.   Hi, I am 18 and I have been dating this new guy for about two months now. I have known him for six years previous and when we were not dating we spent more time together, were more affectionate towards each other ect. But now that I am his ...

A.   7 September 2007: You need to value yourself. Is this the kind of relationship you really want?? If not, you have some choices.....not HIS fault, as maybe he is the kind of person who takes people for granted............YOUR fault if you don't make up your mind what ... (read in full...)

Self-conscious about being called fat

Q.   Recently, when I was out in public i've been hearing people calling me fat. That makes me feel awful and ashamed of myself. Why are people so mean? Why do they do this? I am 5 feet 4, and 138 pounds. Is that considered as fat?nSince of this incident ...

A.   14 June 2007: Why are you allowing people to control the way you feel about things. Everyone is entitled to their opinion......don't ALLOW their opinion to hurt you. If you AGREE with their opinion then perhaps you could do something about the things they are... (read in full...)

Should a guy go back to his pregnant ex, even if he loves someone else?

Q.   Tell me something, if a man breaks up with someone, decides to move on, finds a new girlfriend and they are both happy, and then suddenly the ex says that she is pregnant with his child does he have to leave this new love and go back to the other ...

A.   14 June 2007: This is claszsic of the scenario that unfolds when all standards are gone and nothing matters any more. No agreement and certainly no personal self esteem. Decide on a personal basis to draw the line somewhere....you are where you are at this mom... (read in full...)

Is it bad I lack experience, sex wise... never done anything with boys

Q.   Im 16 and i have Never had a boy finger me or me do anything for a boy.. seems like everyone else has and i feel embarresed to say that ''i lack in sexual experience'' when personally i dont care but when people ask me.. i get ambarresed.. is this ...

A.   14 June 2007: I am sooooooooo proud of you. You are missing nothing except the chance of losing your self respect. You have the rest of your life to discover the real joys of a loving relationship. There is an organisation in the United States called "True Love... (read in full...)

Married my husband but still in love with my soulmate!

Q.   I have a problem. I am married to my husband but i'm in love with another man. I don't know what to do. The guy who had taken my virginity is who I am in love with even before I married my husband. I haven't seen or heard from that guy for 2 years ...

A.   14 June 2007: We can all feel special about our first loves, but you are ion a situation today that you have CHOSEN to be in, so ask yourself why you made that decision initially? What are the chances of you going back and being at ease with yourself? Is it re... (read in full...)

He needs space before the next step and I am so confused!!

Q.   My boyfirend of three years has asked for some time. We are supposed to move in together this December and i am starting school by his house this summer. He said that he loves me but just wnats to be sure that this is it. We still talk a little on ...

A.   14 June 2007: Be good to yourself. Value yourself enough to know that you need someone in your life who will appreciate all that you are and not need "TIME". It is an easy way out. Women say it, and now men are saying it. If you want something badly,... (read in full...)

He wears this unusual ring on his wedding ring finger. Does this mean he's married?

Q.   hi, ive just started a new hobby which i enjoy, there one thing bugging me when the leader talks to the group he tends to look directly at me all the time, i also caught him glancing at me from the other side of the room. hes quite yummy and i ...

A.   14 June 2007: It could be that its a committment ring or a friendship ring, or it could just be a casual thing that he just liked anyway. If you start to talk socuially at any time, no doubt it would be easy to ask the question.You could even say that you like... (read in full...)

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