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Time to get over a broken heart

Q.   My girlfriend (who I loved alot) broke it off with me just under a week ago. With some soul searching and thinking about all the things she said for why it finished, I have accepted her reasons and am actually starting to..well anyway. My question ...

A.   26 June 2011: I did this survey online and this was the responce... As promised, here is the extended analysis of your survey results and an important healing lesson. You fall into a pretty high category of pain. I understand this is an extremely diffic... (read in full...)

Time to get over a broken heart

Q.   My girlfriend (who I loved alot) broke it off with me just under a week ago. With some soul searching and thinking about all the things she said for why it finished, I have accepted her reasons and am actually starting to..well anyway. My question ...

A.   19 June 2011: Thanks for your help. Still feels like a fresh wound, think it will take while to heal. I know its not a death or anything so dramatic, but I cant imagine ever loving someone like I love her, it took a lifetime to meet her, but I guess that is ... (read in full...)

Time to get over a broken heart

Q.   My girlfriend (who I loved alot) broke it off with me just under a week ago. With some soul searching and thinking about all the things she said for why it finished, I have accepted her reasons and am actually starting to..well anyway. My question ...

A.   19 June 2011: Thanks for your help. Still feels like a fresh wound, think it will take while to heal. I know its not a death or anything so dramatic, but I cant imagine ever loving someone like I love her, it took a lifetime to meet her, but I guess that is ... (read in full...)

Advice on Dating For Guys

Q.   I would like to share advice when dating. I am a life coach and most of my clients always want me to help them in this area. Opening Conversation: Women dont like feeling like they are being hit on. And will reject you if they feel like the...

A.   16 June 2011: Its easy to be confused as a guy about how to behave in this area. I would probably go more with being open and honest. Just say you fancy her, and dont think of all these complicated ways to manipulate her. ... (read in full...)

Crush "technically single." What does this mean?

Q.   There's this guy who I really like , thing is I fell for him before realizing he was taken.. He never spoke about his gf in group conversations or never hinted he was taken .. I've recently became his friend on fb and we chat sometimes about ...

A.   16 June 2011: I have to agree with the other responses. I think he is being devious too. You sound like a good person and you can do better. I have behaved as that guy is, and he might need to be made aware that how he treats people is disturbing. ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my girlfriend that I use viagra?

Q.   Hi I have been in a loving relationship for the past year. We have a great sex life, the thing is, I use viagra because it helps me to perform (I am 39 now and well enough said). I have never told my girlfriend that I use viagra and I am wanting ...

A.   16 June 2011: And thanks also for pointing out the medical dangers, I hadnt really considered those.... (read in full...)

Should I tell my girlfriend that I use viagra?

Q.   Hi I have been in a loving relationship for the past year. We have a great sex life, the thing is, I use viagra because it helps me to perform (I am 39 now and well enough said). I have never told my girlfriend that I use viagra and I am wanting ...

A.   16 June 2011: Thanks for all your wonderful advice. I think you all hit the nail on the head and maybe I should try without it again. I agree now with the first response about our relationship not being based on love because it is (was) laking in trust, honesty, ... (read in full...)

Teacher added everyone but me on Facebook

Q.   Hi, my name is Rach and I'm 14 years old... thing is, I have a really huge crush on this teacher and yes, signs are there that he likes me back. Every time I'm near him I catch him looking at me, and there was once my two friends confronted him and ...

A.   14 June 2011: I am surprised your teacher has made facebook friends with ANY students in the school, this is not a good move for him. Teachers are usually advised not to be friends with students on facebook, for obvious reasons. Who wants students seeing phot... (read in full...)

He's been taking viagra! And I didn't know it..I'm devastated! Help

Q.   when i first met my boyfriend(18months)i found out that he was taking viagra of course he denied this,as time moved on for us i didnt think he'd need to take it as we have a great sex life(so i thought)i found viagra in his pocket accidently,this ...

A.   14 June 2011: Hey, This was an interesting situation. I am a male who has been taking viagra and havent told my girlfriend. Feeling guilty about not telling her and think I will, but the thing is, I know she will react the same way as you and see it as an insul... (read in full...)

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