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I hate my husband's porn habit!

Q.   I am married for almost 2 years and I can't accept my husband's porn habit...True, that he never hides it from me or ain't really ADDICTED as many say. But still, everytime I find out, I get weird emotional feelings and everything. Am I ...

A.   2 February 2006: just for thought , is it really ok to hurt someone you love just because you are not hiding it... (read in full...)

How can I make my breasts look better??

Q.   hey there.ifeelso selfish writing this because i have alovley face and body.its just my boobs.all of the girlsin my b/fs mags have got gorgeous tits thatare full with massive nipples.mine are just so small. i feel so concious about them.i dont want ...

A.   23 January 2006: how is your butt if you feel better about that flaunt that instead , i think most men prefer butts anyway... (read in full...)

Why don't the men who use porn...ever think about the pain and hurt they can cause their partners?

Q.   Why is it that a lot of men dont seem to even think about the hurt they can cause their partners by using porn. Dont they stop to think how it would feel to them if we used pictures of young hunks to get off especially as they are changing and ...

A.   23 January 2006: right on 2esillyaMuse'D i am in total agreement that society has told men that its ok to be this way! i dont like my man getting off on other women but i am always feeling like i need to prtend i dont mind around other people bacause the attitude... (read in full...)

He's 34-I'm 16..he wants to take me out for my birthday...provided I give him my virginity!

Q.   i really like this guy i work with he's 34 im 16. he's always flirting with me and has offered to take me out for my birthday as long he can take my virginity. i really want him too, but im worried about what people might say. he makes me feel s...

A.   22 January 2006: A 30 year old man will not give you better than a young keen man your own age! a man's sex drive doesn't get better with age, a younger man who appreciates you will make you feel worth sooooooo much more and more sexy than an older man who just ... (read in full...)

He's still sleeping with me *and* the girl he left me for. He says he's just confused...

Q.   I am 25 and my ex, who just recently broke up with me, is 20. We were together for 2 years and we have a 16 month old baby together. He is now living with the other girl him and I have never stopped sleeping together and till this day still are he ...

A.   21 January 2006: you are being used ... wheter or not he is confused!... he is getting both of you and not being made to deal with it! AND i doubt this will change unless one of you girls puts your foot down!... (read in full...)

Can our relationship survive despite the bad sex? Any ways to improve it?

Q.   Hi, ive been going out with my boyfriend for approx. one and half years now. our relationship is very good apart from the sex bit. Hes in his late 40s, Im 40. He enjoys what i do to him but Im tired of initiating it all the time. he doesnt seem ...

A.   21 January 2006: that is enough , only if it is enough for you too! if not, read up on ways too spice it up, if it still dosent change then talk to him.... (read in full...)

Is he as interested in me as I am in him?

Q.   I am 20 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. Things were great at first, but now it seems as though he hasn't got any time for me. I love him but i feel as though he isn't as interested in me as much as i am in him. I don't ...

A.   21 January 2006: 4 months isent that long to be with someone , if you are getting bad vibes (like an intuition) from your relationship already id say maybe this would be your que to get out because the longer you leave it the harder it will be. but if its just him ... (read in full...)

Still a virgin because girls leave when they see my little todger!

Q.   I have a small dick (3.5"). I am quite capable of attracting girls and getting them to take their clothes off. But when they see my penis they run a mile. Because of this I am a virgin at 20 yrs old. This is driving me crazy. I am at university and ...

A.   10 January 2006: i cant say ive ever noticed size! it really dosent matter! most of a womens nerve endings are in her clitirous anyway and thats on the outside! and if a woman loves you or cares about you then they will just be excited to be having sex with you!... (read in full...)

Is this right?

Q.   is it wrong to loose your virinity to man twice your age at the age of seventeen...

A.   10 January 2006: its not wrong, it up to whoever is losing there virginity if they want to loose it, and who they want to loose it to... (read in full...)

A sexual question I need to ask...

Q.   please don't laugh at this question, but what is a gimp? all i know is that they wear a funny mask, but what do they do? i mean, i know it's something sexual. are thry kind of sex slaves? i am 23 and i am embarrassed not to know this and i'd feel ...

A.   10 January 2006: well i dunno if im right after reading the other postings but i was always under the impression after attending and modeling in a few fetish shows that a gimp is someone who wears the fetish gimp mask and not alot else (bondage straps, a lead) and ... (read in full...)

I need genuine suggestions... My dick is just too BIG!

Q.   Don't know what to do... I'm too big! Yes, I'm sure a big penis looks great in pictures, or when a porn star jumps all over it - but for me, not being interested in pictures, and not dating porn stars - it f***ing sucks! I can't even r...

A.   10 January 2006: how on earth do you thinkus women squeeze babys outta there?! is it bigger than a baby?! believe me you cannot be too big for sex! the only problem i can get from this that niether of you are relaxed enough and prehaps your girlfriend needs a litt... (read in full...)

I think my 12 year old was masturbating. I feel I should be aware of this..so how do I ask her?

Q.   I have a daughter who is over 12 yrs now and knows most everything about the human body, its functions, about sexual intercourse and has also started her periods. A few times, on my way to bed, when I go in to straighten her blanket (she rolls ...

A.   10 January 2006: i would be horrified at that age if my mum mentioned anything about masterbating to me whetherit be about me doing , her doing it or the dog doing it! you should leave her alone on that matter just like you would with her having a bath going to t... (read in full...)

Could implants fix my post-baby sagging boob problem?

Q.   hi, I recently had a baby and my boobs shrank and got a bit saggy. They are not too bad. I've seen women with worse but because they are also quite small now, I don't like the way I look when I wear a top that you can't wear a bra with, so I've dec...

A.   10 January 2006: hello there, yeah i know most guys like non tampered with boobs and all that but i actually am not that bothered about the way they look clothes off and im not doing it to attract men (im married) i really just cant stand the way they look clo... (read in full...)

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