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Will the over-sexualization of women ever stop?

Q.   Why are there so many expectations for women? I've started to notice a trend that women are mostly valued by their attractiveness. We're expected to shave, wear makeup, be skinny, have larger boobs and a nice butt, etc. The list goes on and on. I ...

A.   22 March 2015: To the anon- I WASN'T excusing rape!! I'm just saying you're never going to get rid of it, so you can't put yourself in situations that evil people will take advantage of you. That's just the truth!... (read in full...)

Will the over-sexualization of women ever stop?

Q.   Why are there so many expectations for women? I've started to notice a trend that women are mostly valued by their attractiveness. We're expected to shave, wear makeup, be skinny, have larger boobs and a nice butt, etc. The list goes on and on. I ...

A.   22 March 2015: @jls022- Your rape story is horrible and the guy should be put in prison. That doesn't excuse those stupid "uneven" laws that they're passing. Also the Women who never report their rapes to the police because they're ashamed or whatever should ... (read in full...)

Will the over-sexualization of women ever stop?

Q.   Why are there so many expectations for women? I've started to notice a trend that women are mostly valued by their attractiveness. We're expected to shave, wear makeup, be skinny, have larger boobs and a nice butt, etc. The list goes on and on. I ...

A.   22 March 2015: @Womenwithwords- I obviously wasn't talking about kids being raped? What's wrong with you? I'm not blaming rape victims! I think the guys who did it need to be locked up no doubt. What I'm saying is you have to be careful because their are evil ... (read in full...)

Will the over-sexualization of women ever stop?

Q.   Why are there so many expectations for women? I've started to notice a trend that women are mostly valued by their attractiveness. We're expected to shave, wear makeup, be skinny, have larger boobs and a nice butt, etc. The list goes on and on. I ...

A.   22 March 2015: @Honeypie- Also many of the rape cases are because the Women put themselves in these positions, such as getting too drunk at a party or going home with a stranger. They put themselves in those situations! Ya they should be able to get as drunk as ... (read in full...)

Will the over-sexualization of women ever stop?

Q.   Why are there so many expectations for women? I've started to notice a trend that women are mostly valued by their attractiveness. We're expected to shave, wear makeup, be skinny, have larger boobs and a nice butt, etc. The list goes on and on. I ...

A.   22 March 2015: @Honeypie- Well if Women hate being objectified so much, quit becoming models, becoming pornstars, don't dress showing a lot of skin, posting photos on fb showing the world your asses and cleavage, etc. Women have a choice not to sign up for these ... (read in full...)

Will the over-sexualization of women ever stop?

Q.   Why are there so many expectations for women? I've started to notice a trend that women are mostly valued by their attractiveness. We're expected to shave, wear makeup, be skinny, have larger boobs and a nice butt, etc. The list goes on and on. I ...

A.   22 March 2015: @ the anon girl claiming how ignorant and naive about this whole issue- Women ARE more sensitive than men and it is the WOMEN'S CHOICE to become a porn star or a model. You should be blaming all the hot girls for signing up for these position... (read in full...)

Will the over-sexualization of women ever stop?

Q.   Why are there so many expectations for women? I've started to notice a trend that women are mostly valued by their attractiveness. We're expected to shave, wear makeup, be skinny, have larger boobs and a nice butt, etc. The list goes on and on. I ...

A.   21 March 2015: @jls022- That's fine, I just hate when it turns into radical feminism and girls think there is a war against them. For example, I live in California and recently they passed the "yes means yes" law. What it states is a woman hasn't given consent ... (read in full...)

Will the over-sexualization of women ever stop?

Q.   Why are there so many expectations for women? I've started to notice a trend that women are mostly valued by their attractiveness. We're expected to shave, wear makeup, be skinny, have larger boobs and a nice butt, etc. The list goes on and on. I ...

A.   21 March 2015: To the female anon who said she has more girls come into her work complaining about their insecurities than men, well that's because in GENERAL girls are way more sensitive than guys are. There are a hell of a lot of guys that feel inferior because ... (read in full...)

Will the over-sexualization of women ever stop?

Q.   Why are there so many expectations for women? I've started to notice a trend that women are mostly valued by their attractiveness. We're expected to shave, wear makeup, be skinny, have larger boobs and a nice butt, etc. The list goes on and on. I ...

A.   21 March 2015: Women need to get over this because this is how it has always been and ALWAYS will be. It's natural for the stronger sex to take over, no? There are double standards towards men as well. For example, guys are expected to be manly and strong and if ... (read in full...)

Why do I care so much about girls noticing me? As soon as I stop caring a girl will notice me then I get too happy and go back to square one!

Q.   Whenever I'm at school I'm always hoping for a girl to see me and think "Hmmmm I wonder who that is" and just want to talk to me. I'm always hoping some girl will see me and think I'm cute (To be honest I'm average looking-to cute to some people). ...

A.   19 March 2015: @jls022- i think what I'm going to try and do is not worry about any girls looking at me and let things flow naturally. Things usually work out way better that way... (read in full...)

Why do I care so much about girls noticing me? As soon as I stop caring a girl will notice me then I get too happy and go back to square one!

Q.   Whenever I'm at school I'm always hoping for a girl to see me and think "Hmmmm I wonder who that is" and just want to talk to me. I'm always hoping some girl will see me and think I'm cute (To be honest I'm average looking-to cute to some people). ...

A.   19 March 2015: Thanks for taking the time to answer my questions jls. That last post was really helpful... (read in full...)

Why do I care so much about girls noticing me? As soon as I stop caring a girl will notice me then I get too happy and go back to square one!

Q.   Whenever I'm at school I'm always hoping for a girl to see me and think "Hmmmm I wonder who that is" and just want to talk to me. I'm always hoping some girl will see me and think I'm cute (To be honest I'm average looking-to cute to some people). ...

A.   19 March 2015: @jls022- How come I DO get looks from girls when I'm not worried about them checking me out? That's what I don't get. Yeah but HOW do i start NOT caring if girls are looking at me or not?? Also my brother-in-law had a talk with me about this is... (read in full...)

Why do I care so much about girls noticing me? As soon as I stop caring a girl will notice me then I get too happy and go back to square one!

Q.   Whenever I'm at school I'm always hoping for a girl to see me and think "Hmmmm I wonder who that is" and just want to talk to me. I'm always hoping some girl will see me and think I'm cute (To be honest I'm average looking-to cute to some people). ...

A.   19 March 2015: I don't think I'll ever have a female friend or have a girl talk to me. They never show any interest in talking, and i feel defeated before i even open my mouth. It's not like I'm ugly, I've been told I'm not ugly at all by lots of people... (read in full...)

Why do I care so much about girls noticing me? As soon as I stop caring a girl will notice me then I get too happy and go back to square one!

Q.   Whenever I'm at school I'm always hoping for a girl to see me and think "Hmmmm I wonder who that is" and just want to talk to me. I'm always hoping some girl will see me and think I'm cute (To be honest I'm average looking-to cute to some people). ...

A.   19 March 2015: @Honeypie- But how can I not worry about girls? It's freakin hard. I don't know why it's so hard for me either, I wish I understood why I'm like this. I've never had a female friend in my life, EVER. You say Girls and Guys are not that much dif... (read in full...)

Why do I care so much about girls noticing me? As soon as I stop caring a girl will notice me then I get too happy and go back to square one!

Q.   Whenever I'm at school I'm always hoping for a girl to see me and think "Hmmmm I wonder who that is" and just want to talk to me. I'm always hoping some girl will see me and think I'm cute (To be honest I'm average looking-to cute to some people). ...

A.   18 March 2015: @Honeypie- I don't even have any friends anymore because of how unapproachable i am in public. I've been told I come off as real quiet in public, and i look like i don't want to speak to anyone. You say ignoring girls won't necessarily make... (read in full...)

Why do I care so much about girls noticing me? As soon as I stop caring a girl will notice me then I get too happy and go back to square one!

Q.   Whenever I'm at school I'm always hoping for a girl to see me and think "Hmmmm I wonder who that is" and just want to talk to me. I'm always hoping some girl will see me and think I'm cute (To be honest I'm average looking-to cute to some people). ...

A.   17 March 2015: @Honeypie- I realize they don't OWE me anything, but I just hate myself when they don't look at me in a "i fancy him" kinda way, or even a smile. If a girl doesn't give me any type of friendly look at first glance, then obviously I have zero chance ... (read in full...)

Why do I care so much about girls noticing me? As soon as I stop caring a girl will notice me then I get too happy and go back to square one!

Q.   Whenever I'm at school I'm always hoping for a girl to see me and think "Hmmmm I wonder who that is" and just want to talk to me. I'm always hoping some girl will see me and think I'm cute (To be honest I'm average looking-to cute to some people). ...

A.   17 March 2015: @Sageoldguy1465- So you're saying I should figure it out on my own and not ask for advice, and just live with it? This is an advice forum, and I'm using it for advice so I can better myself with women. I'm not some entitled egomaniac who thinks all ... (read in full...)

Why do I care so much about girls noticing me? As soon as I stop caring a girl will notice me then I get too happy and go back to square one!

Q.   Whenever I'm at school I'm always hoping for a girl to see me and think "Hmmmm I wonder who that is" and just want to talk to me. I'm always hoping some girl will see me and think I'm cute (To be honest I'm average looking-to cute to some people). ...

A.   17 March 2015: Also can women tell if I'm insecure through my actions? I'm not trying to act insecure, so how can they tell? Do you think I'm acting insecure through my actions and behaviors without realizing it? Is that possible?... (read in full...)

Why do I care so much about girls noticing me? As soon as I stop caring a girl will notice me then I get too happy and go back to square one!

Q.   Whenever I'm at school I'm always hoping for a girl to see me and think "Hmmmm I wonder who that is" and just want to talk to me. I'm always hoping some girl will see me and think I'm cute (To be honest I'm average looking-to cute to some people). ...

A.   17 March 2015: @Honeypie- I'm just having a really hard time with myself in life right now. Why can't you just help me instead of getting all defensive? Am I not allowed to have insecurities because I'm a guy? Am I supposed to be invincible? HOW do I change it u... (read in full...)

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