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Should I go for her again or not?

Q.   Hello agony aunts, like everybody here, I've a problem. I've been in love with a girl for about a year now. We dated three times and we always ended breaking up because she couldn't stop thinking about horses and horse related activities. We would...

A.   14 December 2008: My advise is go for it, you dont know if you dont try plus, girls like it when you put the effort in, chase chase chase!! :-) Good Luck!! J xx... (read in full...)

My friend is taking a breakup so hard

Q.   My friends girlfriend of 6 years recently broke up with him. He is taking it really hard. I really dont understand what happened. His ex is acting wierd and im not sure what advice to give him. A little background on them. They have been together 6 ...

A.   13 December 2008: hey there, this sounds very complicated indeed, my best advise for you is to support your friend and just be there for him, hopefully he will realise that perhaps he is better of without this girl, as Im sure the way she is acting is affecting his ... (read in full...)

We only spend together 3 months a year and it's amazing! When we're apart though it seems we are two strangers. How can I make our phone conversations more fun?

Q.   I have been dating this guy for 4 years now and im very much in love with him. He is 18 and im 21. He lives in a different country and comes every once a year for 3 months. Thats the only time i get to spend with him. When we meet its just amaz...

A.   22 September 2008: hey babes two words - Phone Sex ... ha have you ever tried it, or just tease him (Ive just got out the shower, and am lying on my bed...) also just relax tell him funny things that have happened to you - think of it as a chance to get to know eac... (read in full...)

Should I tell my children I was abused by my dad?

Q.   I was abused by my dad as a child. I have had counselling and I am now a mother. All the family know about it except the children. My daughter is now 9 and I think its time she knew. My husband disagrees and said she will become frightened of him. ...

A.   22 September 2008: What did you decide to do please let us know??... (read in full...)

What can I start a conversation about, just to get talking to this girl I really like?

Q.   well basicallyy theres a girl at school that i like but we don't really know eachother, and i'm kinda falling for her :/ and really dont know why. but shes always with her friends so i cant go make conversation with just her. Also she is in the ...

A.   22 September 2008: Did you speak to her let us know????... (read in full...)

Why do teen guys only have one thing on their mind? What's the big deal about sleeping around while you're so young?! Why are they like this?

Q.   why do guys nowadays only want one thing. ONE thing. every single guy that i like, end up going out with them for like a month n then they think they can get straight into my pants, i was goin out wi this guy called "R" and i was with him for 9 ...

A.   22 September 2008: wow your so mature for your age!! well done for not falling for the old I love you now lets have sex - and also well dont for not sleeping with everyone and anyone!! Its a shame but most guys are like that at that age - because its quite ne... (read in full...)

Why do teen guys only have one thing on their mind? What's the big deal about sleeping around while you're so young?! Why are they like this?

Q.   why do guys nowadays only want one thing. ONE thing. every single guy that i like, end up going out with them for like a month n then they think they can get straight into my pants, i was goin out wi this guy called "R" and i was with him for 9 ...

A.   22 September 2008: wow your so mature for your age!! well done for not falling for the old I love you now lets have sex - and also well dont for not sleeping with everyone and anyone!! Its a shame but most guys are like that at that age - because its quite ne... (read in full...)

Should I tell my children I was abused by my dad?

Q.   I was abused by my dad as a child. I have had counselling and I am now a mother. All the family know about it except the children. My daughter is now 9 and I think its time she knew. My husband disagrees and said she will become frightened of him. ...

A.   17 September 2008: i wouldnt want to upset your husband and it seems he feels strongly and I dont blame him - I think you should stop the contact between your children and your father - and explain to your children that grandad is a bad man - thats all. although i ... (read in full...)

What can I start a conversation about, just to get talking to this girl I really like?

Q.   well basicallyy theres a girl at school that i like but we don't really know eachother, and i'm kinda falling for her :/ and really dont know why. but shes always with her friends so i cant go make conversation with just her. Also she is in the ...

A.   17 September 2008: hey babes - my first thought is dont MSN her.. speak to her like you said first. Girls might seem scarey to approach but really they are not that bad, and i bet she is flattered by the fact you like her. I would start of with a smile and saying h... (read in full...)

I don't trust him as much as I used to.

Q.   I'm still with my boyfriend. Just a little problem, I don't trust him as much as I used to. I'm going away to see my sister for 3 days and I'm really going tuu miss him. I'm used to seeing him every day but since I've told him I'm going away for ...

A.   17 September 2008: Hey Babes, Umm this doesnt sound right does it - whats your gut feeling about the whole thing? - Men can be so difficult and he is probally not even thinking he is doing anything wrong - they dont usually miss us untill we are gone - although... (read in full...)

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