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Why does he keep the pictures of his ex?

Q.   So I ran across some pictures of my current fiancee's ex-girlfriend. She cheated on him, broke his heart -- you know the story. The breakup was big. These pictures were, how do I say, 'clothing optional'. We've been together for quite some time and ...

A.   26 July 2007: There is likely some truth to his claim that he just hasn't gotten around to it yet. Such things are far more important to men than they are to women. He needs to learn, however, that what is important to you must be important to him. Is he loo... (read in full...)

Suffer with nerves when it comes to girls.

Q.   Hi, I'm a 17 year old boy and have never had much confidence when it comes to girls. I seem to suffer with nerves. How can i get confidence and get rid of the nerves? Also how will i know if a girl likes me?...

A.   22 July 2007: Somehow you have to find a way to stop caring about the outcome. Talk to a girl because you want to meet a new person and not because you want her phone number. Start off small by engaging in short two to five minute conversations. If you star... (read in full...)

I'm married, but i'm attracted to one of my college instructors.

Q.   Hi, I am a 34 year old college student, I am married with 2 children. I have become seriously attracted to one of my instructors (who is a female). I have never had any feelings for another woman before in my life, but I find myself daydreami...

A.   22 July 2007: There is nothing wrong with you. Know that you can accept your feelings without acting on them. As Victor Frankel observed - in this moment is our freedom. Listen to your gut. Deep down you know that it would be wrong and not fair to your hus... (read in full...)

My man is still accepting phone calls from his "psycho" ex! What can I do?

Q.   I have been dating a wonderful man for two months. He had a bad relationship with another woman he calls "double lifer", she was engaged to him and another man at the same time and he found out when he talked to the other guy. She married the ...

A.   20 June 2007: Phone numbers and email addresses can be changed. Every time he acknowledges her existence he is validating her and her actions. He must be made aware of this. With abandoned pride I acknowledge that I was in a similar situation and handled ... (read in full...)

Having neighbours-from-hell problems!

Q.   Here is the trouble, my hubby and I are having with our neighbor's 13 year old daughter. She is continously either crying for attention or really agitating us to get a reaction that will stick to rebel for some reason; that I could not understand. W...

A.   20 June 2007: The answer to your question lies in your opening paragraph. It sounds like she is crying for attention. For whatever reason she does not feel as though she can get it from her parents. This is both sad and unfortunate. Please consider that rep... (read in full...)

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