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I really want to date this guy and would like for us to be more than we are. What can I do?

Q.   I am in high school. I like this guy. I have heard great things about him. He loves sports like me, he is nice and that we would be good together. The thing is we aren't friends with the same goups of people. Wednesday is the last class together ...

A.   23 January 2007: It sounds like youve got everything planned. And it sounds good to me. do you know somebody in another of his classes? if so get them to talk to him for you if your too shy. But remember, dont be shy because some guys...no ..all guys love a ... (read in full...)

We're in a nasty cycle of verbal abuse and fighting! How do we stop this?

Q.   ive been living with my boyfriend for 8yrs.As any normal couple does we fight over everyday things. the only problem is lately when we fight it turns into nasty name calling and somtimes it turns physical on both sides. Weve been calling names so ...

A.   23 January 2007: I think you are very stressed right now. understandably. Have you tried teling all this to him? Say ok, we have had fights we hav had arguments and we have said things out of anger. That is what we have done and this is what it feels like to me as ... (read in full...)

How do I show my moody boyfriend that I really love him?

Q.   for the last few days my boyfriend has been causing arguements with me or just getting the face on for no reason which is making me feel worthless i want to show him how much i love him and to show him that he is the one i want please help!!...

A.   23 January 2007: Hun i think you should just talk to him. or at least try. guys can be stubourn i know but at leats let him know that yourthere for him. Maybe something has happened at home r to a personal friend of his...or maybe he just needs room to breathe. Guys ... (read in full...)

MY BOYFRIEND IS PRESSURUNG ME

Q.   IM 13 AND I HAVE HAD SEX BEFORE AND IT WAS A HUGE MISTAKE AND I DONT WANT TO DO IT AGAIN WELL AT LEAST NOT FOR A WHILE LIKE YEARS ANYWAYS MY BOYFRIEND IS PRESSURUNG ME AND I DONT KNOW WHAT DO...

A.   4 December 2006: hey girl, i've just turned 14 and one of my best mates is in the same situation at the moment. she told me because she knows that i have bin in that situation myself...and it isnt nice, u feel sirt of attached to him but scared not only of what will ... (read in full...)

I like it but got freaked out... What should I do now?

Q.   Hey guys i really need some advice. im 16 and my boyfriends 15. weve been together 3 weeks and things have started to get a little intamite, i mean all we've done is kiss but last time we kissed intamitly he put his hand up my top and was touching ...

A.   23 July 2006: hey chick,don't worry, i have done the exact same thing. but the fact that he pulled away is a good thing, it means he respects you enough not to push anything that he feels your not ready for. all you need to do is talk to him about it, just say ... (read in full...)

For my 14th birthday, my BF wants us to lose our virginity to each other, but I don't know if I'm ready...

Q.   Hi everybody I am a 13 y o and turn 14 on the 20th Feb but my bf and I are going out to celebrate. We are going to a kids' nightclub and I'm really exited. He has been saving up for 5 months for my present and I am looking forward to it, but then ...

A.   13 February 2006: hi, i think that you need to tell ur bf how u feel and explain that ur not ready. Dont eva let a guy push u into doin something that ur not sure on. U r 14 and it sounds like you want to grow up too quickkly. My advise to u would be to talk to ur bf ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend doesn't thrill me like she used to. What's more, I'm attracted to someone else, and would never want to hurt her!

Q.   Hey all, I'm an 18 year old male in a rather deep relationship. It's been a couple years, and we've managed to get along pretty well. We share a lot of interests and really connect on a lot of levels. We've used the L word with each other and for ...

A.   12 February 2006: Hi, i think that no - one can really answer this for you(sorry). You need to ask your self: Do i really love my girlfriend and if the answer is yes then you need to stop dwelling on what has been and start focusing on what you have got with her now. ... (read in full...)

We hit if off, but the thing is, he's going out with my friend!

Q.   Hi, There is this guy who I like, but is secretly going out with my friend. I Can't help it; I really like him. We always talk and we love the same things and sometimes it seems like he likes me too. What should I do? It's like I'm breaking...

A.   12 February 2006: i would like to say thankyou very much to all thoses who helped, i have decided to let it be until i know exactly what he is thinking. Thanks again, xxxxx ... (read in full...)

I have a current bf but the ex wants me back. Shoulf I do what makes me happy?

Q.   I have been in my current serious relationship for over a year and a half and i do care about my partner but recently my ex whom i still have strong feelings for has asked me back (We split up because he was going away to university). I'm confused. ...

A.   11 February 2006: hi, When i had a differcult decition in my life, my mum would always tell me to follow my heart and be true to what i feel. Chances are that your boyfriend wont mind and understand or he could actually have an idea of whats going on and be willing ... (read in full...)

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