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Can't seem to walk away from a man that I do not love.

Q.   [OP original title] I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years but I know I am not in love with him. My previous relationship left a deep wound in my heart and he was the first person to make me feel whole again and something inside me just won't let ...

A.   11 July 2010: Just wanted to let you know I feel the same way as you do right now. It is an awful feeling. I completely understand. Good luck.... (read in full...)

The lack of intimacy is driving me up the wall.

Q.   Hey everyone, I've got an issue that I suspect a lot of people have gone through before. I'm 32 and my girlfriend is 30. We've been living together going on 3 years now and everything is great. Almost... she doesn't seem to want to have sex at a...

A.   29 June 2010: I'm female and I feel in the same situation. It makes you feel unattractive, unwanted, everything. I know. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We MAYBE have sex once a month. I want that person who can't keeps his hands off me, compliments me ... (read in full...)

Is it bad to leave my girlfriend for another woman?

Q.   Is it that bad to leave my girlfriend for another woman? I've been with my current girlfriend for about 1 year, cohabitating for about 5 months. I had already been unsure as to whether I wanted to commit to her. A couple of months ago I cam...

A.   9 June 2010: I'm in a similar situation.. having thoughts about an ex. Only thing is I've been in this relationship for 8 years. I completely 100% understand where you're coming from. If you know she's not the one you want to be with, I think you should break up ... (read in full...)

Confused over marriage, please help?

Q.   I have been in a relationship for 8 years. We are 27. Both of our parents have been divorced. Regardless, I feel the need to get married someday! He doesn't. He thinks marriage is a piece of paper, a legal document only and doesn't mean anything. He ...

A.   8 June 2010: I appreciate everyone's insight. It's really helping me hear what other people have to say. I mean, obviously it goes a lot further than I let on. He has it in his head that 70% of marriages end in divorce, etc... his dad cheated on his mom, rem... (read in full...)

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