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I'm thinking of ending our relationship because of his lying about porn...what do you think? And how do I block websites like that?

Q.   i have been having problems with my fiance , we moved last month and while i was moving his clothes i found a hidden porno in his sweatshirt.. i was more mad that it was hidden and he had told me when we got together he doesnt even like porn .. when ...

A.   3 September 2009: okay okay .. im a liar .. i lied .. does it make me feel better YES !! -- he kept tellin me he will do anything and everything to make it okay between us .. so i used it to my advantage .. i said " okay .. im setting up a lie dector test .. lol .. ... (read in full...)

I'm thinking of ending our relationship because of his lying about porn...what do you think? And how do I block websites like that?

Q.   i have been having problems with my fiance , we moved last month and while i was moving his clothes i found a hidden porno in his sweatshirt.. i was more mad that it was hidden and he had told me when we got together he doesnt even like porn .. when ...

A.   2 September 2009: i just want to let everyone know that i have settled down .. i needed time to cool off from it .. and now that i have im realizing life is to short to be unhappy .. its took alot for me to realize it .. its even sad the things that made me realize ... (read in full...)

I'm thinking of ending our relationship because of his lying about porn...what do you think? And how do I block websites like that?

Q.   i have been having problems with my fiance , we moved last month and while i was moving his clothes i found a hidden porno in his sweatshirt.. i was more mad that it was hidden and he had told me when we got together he doesnt even like porn .. when ...

A.   1 September 2009: i do want to thank you all for you advice a lot of its not what i was hoping to hear but its proably what i need to hear.. i have tried to ask why he is hiding it and he still claims he never looked at it ifyoudontmind i think i like your answer ... (read in full...)

I'm thinking of ending our relationship because of his lying about porn...what do you think? And how do I block websites like that?

Q.   i have been having problems with my fiance , we moved last month and while i was moving his clothes i found a hidden porno in his sweatshirt.. i was more mad that it was hidden and he had told me when we got together he doesnt even like porn .. when ...

A.   1 September 2009: i understand what you are all saying about the porn not being a big problem .. the problem is the lying more so than the porn .. i dont want to look at those perfect women when i have 2 children and i cant possibly compare to them women in the porns ... (read in full...)

Went snooping through all of his things and found stuff from his past - do I have a right to be upset?

Q.   I need to know if this is a *me* problem that I should work on personally, or if I need to talk to my boyfriend about it too. I'll apologize for this being so long now. I just have a lot to say about the issue at hand. This morning, I have no i...

A.   31 August 2009: i would be upset about all of it .. i went snooping last nite too ..and i have more important things to do than snoop through my fiances things.. i think its because we have trust issues and after you found out about the key you wanted to see what ... (read in full...)

We got into a fight and I threatened to take the baby away!

Q.   I need help as soon as possible, me and the love of my life, got in a fight, i lost my temper and threatened to take the baby away, and because of that we broke up. Shes currently pregnant with our child, and i regret saying that and wish i c...

A.   31 August 2009: you made a HUGE mistake .. you never say that to a woman .. and espically a pregnant woman.. pregnant women can be very mean .. ive been there a couple times .. if she will listen you need to tell her how sorry you are and that you didnt mean ... (read in full...)

Making comments about when I was skinny..now he ignores me!

Q.   my boyfirend made a comment the other day about my weight. He said I looked so good when I was skinny. The other night I was eating a piece of chocolate and he said your never going to lose weight if you keep treating yourself to sweets. He used ...

A.   31 August 2009: this is so sad .. you poor girl .. you dont deserve to be treated like this because of your weight .. something i read on here the other day is .." if you find yourself in love ..ask yourself if you would still love this person if thier face was... (read in full...)

If a girl says 'thank you' after you've been on a date, does it mean it's over? And how do I ask a girl from school out?

Q.   [Mod note - two seperate questions were from the same poster, so I have combined both] Q1: im gonna ask this girl out. im 15, shes 16. I know her from school. Ask her out at school? If I do ask her out at school it cant be nothing super huge o...

A.   31 August 2009: Coffee?? at this age lol !! no ask her to a movie .. and i do agree with eyes wide open to do it alone :) that way no one gets embarassed.. if a girl says thank you it doesnt mean its over .. it means she had a good time .. and she just wan... (read in full...)

How do you get a diagnosis for bi-polar?

Q.   Does anybody familiar with bi-polar mental illness? I think, it might be the reason that my husband and children are very hard to live with. There is no really anybody ,who can diagnose it, because it is not as serious,when it comes with all ...

A.   31 August 2009: Clinicians diagnose personality disorders based on certain signs and symptoms and a through psychiatic evaluation .. to recieve a diadnosis at least 5 of the following signs and symptoms , which typically begin in early adulthood must be present..* ... (read in full...)

B/f constantly accuses me of cheating but I'm not!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 months now and we jus recently broke up and got back together bc he thought I was cheating on him and I've gave him my email address and password give him my phone everything jus to prove to him ...

A.   31 August 2009: sounds like he is guilty .. often when guys accuse their girls of this they are the ones with something to hide.. ... (read in full...)

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