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Am I stupid for letting a few more old texts ruin my marriage?

Q.   Hi everyone, Things have taken a huge turn for the worse. We seemed to have smoothed things out I was looking forward to out 32nd anniversary tomorrow and holiday next week. Anyway, my husband had to put his sim in his old phone as his other i...

A.   29 July 2009: oh dear i know just how you feel believe you me. my husband actually had an affair last year we had been married 30 years, whats wrong with these men??? they really think they are invinciable and really just dont have a clue....survice to say my h... (read in full...)

Husband had affair came back, but I just feel like things will never be the same

Q.   my husband has had an affair and though he left and has come back having made a huge mistake i am still re- living it all and cant seem to move on. we have been married 30 years and this other woman was his collegue, he was the boss. he resigned...

A.   29 July 2009: he wants to be home here but the situation with jobs at present prevents this. oh believe me he isnt doing anything i have no doubts on that score,hes had a massive wake up call and ive put things in place so that if i ever have a shadow of doubt he... (read in full...)

He says he wants to be with his family but calls his mistress every chance he has!

Q.   help me! i was with my ex husband for 37 years and during that marriage he had a mistress for 30 years . when he left me the last time i got the divore . he had left me 3 times before! i believed the words of god (only on to him) and look what ...

A.   27 July 2009: oh my god, poor you! i was married 3oyears when my hubby had his affair and that was only 8 months ago!!! i started divorce proceedings then he wanted to come home, said he had been a fool. a big understatement can type what i think but lets j... (read in full...)

In material terms I have everything I want, so why do I feel so dissatisfied with my life?

Q.   Hi All I am desperate and could really do with some advice. I am 41 year old male, married with two beautiful children aged 7 and 9. I met by partner some 20 years ago and we have now been married for 12 years. I am successful in business and ...

A.   27 July 2009: you reap what you sow, sorry to say this but ive been that wife and know exactly what your saying ,feeling and ruining. as my husband said to me "he lost his way" i waited for the music to start as it just sounded like the words of a song....... (read in full...)

Husband had affair came back, but I just feel like things will never be the same

Q.   my husband has had an affair and though he left and has come back having made a huge mistake i am still re- living it all and cant seem to move on. we have been married 30 years and this other woman was his collegue, he was the boss. he resigned...

A.   27 July 2009: thanks for the replies, guess its something i have to sort out myself!! we dont live together he lives on our boat and me in our home, he comes home at weekends, so really thats probably why its taking me so long to know what i want, he on the other ... (read in full...)

I read messages on my boyfriends phone and don't know if it's innocent or not. What should I do now?

Q.   Hi. This kind of thing is always asked, but I just don't know what to do! Basically, I read my boyfriend of 6 months messages a few weeks ago because he is so protective of his cell, I know this is wrong and that I have betrayed his trust, ...

A.   26 July 2009: personally speaking i would be a little concerned. he could be testing the water here and seeing where it could go with the other person but who am i to know whats in a mans brain!!! just tread carefully and keep ya eyes open, men can act all nice... (read in full...)

Sadly, I am in love with a woman, who is not my wife, but who I do love, what should I do?

Q.   I am a 29 yr old guy with problems (obviously). I have been married to my wife for just shy of 1 year, though we have been together for over 7 years (met in college, first 2 yrs were not really serious yet). She is about a year younger than me. Five ...

A.   26 July 2009: well well well... why is it peolpe do things all the wrong way round. be a man and tell your wife the truth. you appear to want your cake and eat it,i know it doesnt seem that way but believe me it is. i am not saying you dont deserve to be ha... (read in full...)

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