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Trapped in a loveless marriage..........

Q.   Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...

A.   26 April 2011: Hi, James gf again! All this is assuming that the only way to be happy is as one half of a couple. I'm a pretty independant woman and dont NEED a man to 'complete' me.Additionally, its pretty hard to find everything you need in one man. I have James ... (read in full...)

Trapped in a loveless marriage..........

Q.   Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...

A.   22 April 2011: I am devistated-after a wonderful party with my girlfriend, she calmly announces that she has a date this weekend! She says I cant expect her to remain alone and 'on a string' for me for ever and that she's looking forward to spending some time ... (read in full...)

Trapped in a loveless marriage..........

Q.   Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...

A.   21 April 2011: thanks so much, all these words are helping me think a little clearer. I took my gf to the party;my wife dislikes social events and gets bored easily at such things. So my colleagues are used to seeing me alone at these events.I introduced my gf as... (read in full...)

Trapped in a loveless marriage..........

Q.   Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...

A.   20 April 2011: seanseann, i'm sure you will agree that the 'nuissance' you have to put up with is small change compared to the mysery your parents may have faced had they stayed together.Do you love your parents? So why not be happy that they moved on from an ... (read in full...)

Trapped in a loveless marriage..........

Q.   Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...

A.   19 April 2011: Thank you all.My girlfriend is trully an amazing woman , she wants so badly for me to be happy and will do whatever it takes...walk away from me, be with me....regardless of what she herself wants. My wife is so different-she knew I wanted to leave ... (read in full...)

Trapped in a loveless marriage..........

Q.   Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...

A.   18 April 2011: I'd hate to think that my wife is the one I should be with just because we made a baby together! Special though it is, shouldnt there be more to a relationship that that??? And the baby created during 'goodbye sex' was I feel less an act of God and ... (read in full...)

Trapped in a loveless marriage..........

Q.   Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...

A.   18 April 2011: Thank you for your words. I am currently fighting the urge to tell my wife about my girlfriend...if it was out in the open the separation would happen i'm sure...I know that this is cowardly but I want to get away from my wife.....this week I have ... (read in full...)

Trapped in a loveless marriage..........

Q.   Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...

A.   18 April 2011: Thank you for your advice. My girlfriend has told me that she will be a loving step mother to my child-she has a teenaged daughter and works with children, she is loving woman who I have no doubt would bring my son nothing but joy. Counsel... (read in full...)

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