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My wife cheated on me and is now worried that I'm cheating on her. Its causing a great deal of stress in our home

Q.   I had recently discovered that my wife of 12 years was having an affair for past one year. I confronted her with the evidence I had and she admitted it. She has promised to end the affair, which I presume she did, and work on marriage. I do not ...

A.   15 July 2012: Hi There I is a little advise: call her whenever you are away from her. She will know what you are doing and where you are. That way she will feel informed about where you are and then she wont be "guessing", because the guessing thoughts are thos... (read in full...)

Will penetration hurt?

Q.   I finger myself and i wanna know if when i have sex it will hurt. I mean i finger and it doesn't hurt, so will penetration hurt? ...

A.   1 May 2012: Hi Girl The foreplay is the key. Play enough with him, (a lot of kisses and tendernes) and then, when YOU feel you are ready, ask him to let you take control on it and let him know you want to do it slow and easy. We, the man, can get too exit... (read in full...)

What can I do to get over a threesome that went wrong?

Q.   I've been having a real issue trying to get over a threesome gone wrong with my girlfriend that happened almost a year ago. We've been together now for 4 years and about a year ago we were talking about maybe just having some fun and having a ...

A.   1 May 2012: Hi I went throug something similar, so I will give you my opinion based on your story. I am 43 years old, so I think I can help you a little. 1.-It was your idea on first hand. You know playing this kind of game could be dangerous, don't you? ... (read in full...)

Is it true men love stockings and suspenders?

Q.   Hi everyone I just need to ask a quick question I am planning on surprising my boyfriend. Is it true that men love stockings and suspenders? I just need some answers as I am unsure whether he would like it or not thank you ...

A.   1 May 2012: Hi Girl I can tell you a lot of man like that, but NOT all of them. You have to check what does your boyfriend likes (you women know how to do that wihtout men noticing...) ask him to go shopping with you and suddenly go to the lingery area and obse... (read in full...)

Had a fling with a married man on holiday and now I cant forget him! What should I do?

Q.   I went on a holiday recently and there I found myself attracted to the driver of the car that was escorting us around. Things took a strange turn one evening. It was raining and we were alone by a river. It was bitterly cold and I was shivering. He ...

A.   1 May 2012: Hi Anonimus girl I can understand physical attraction, but beliveve me, it will pass. Think about it: what would it happen once you get what you want and have an encounter with him? What will it be when the clothes are back on? Try to feel the... (read in full...)

My wife with another man, reality is quite different from fantasy.

Q.   Hello I am looking for some help. I had the fantasy of watching my wife having sex with someone else. I read about it, found that is not so unusual, so I talked to my wife about it. On first hand, she was extranged, since I am a very jelous man, but...

A.   26 April 2012: Hello Tisha-1 She loves me, but she is feeling that we might not be sexual compatible, but she realized all I have done for her and she feels she loves me. She is 100% ok to stop this, but she also admits that she still miss to have sex with the... (read in full...)

Husband wants me to have sex with another man, but he doesn't want to watch, he just wants me to tell him about it. What is this called?

Q.   Can someone please tell me... " my husband wants me to have sex with another man, he does not want to watch but he wants me to tell him about it" What is this called? ...

A.   14 April 2012: Hello Look in the internet about Candaulism, or Candalagnia. The issue about him not wanting to see you doing so, might be because he is not 100% into that and wants to give you some room and "privacy" about that. Ask him directly. I told my wi... (read in full...)

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