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My long distance fiancee of 3 years dropped a bombshell - he killed someone 8 years ago!

Q.   I'm getting married in July to a man I love so much and have been with for over three years long distance. We met when his job brought him overseas and we have been inseperable ever since. We speak on the phone everyday, sometimes up to 8 hours at a ...

A.   15 February 2007: You are wise to worry. I married a man who worked for the government (CIA). Same thing happened. He literally could not live with the shame/guilt of what he had done. He suffered from post tramatic stress disorder but never got the help he ... (read in full...)

He loves BJ's and I hate giving them! How do I tell him without losing him?

Q.   hi iam 35 and waited my whole life to meet a man like this,that treats me like gold,only problem is he loves blow jobs and i hate it so much,how do i explain to him with out loosing him....

A.   15 February 2007: This is a good test. Tell him. If he dumps you because you don't want to give blowjobs, he's not worth holding onto. Stand up for yourself. Demand respect. IS a woman's mouth the natural receptacle for a penis? Two people who love each other can ... (read in full...)

Is it possible for a gay man to feel anything other than friendship with a straight female?

Q.   Hi Everyone, I'm a straight female, 47, 3 adult children, single. I have experienced a lot where relationships are concerned but recently I find that I am falling in love with a gay man - we have everything but the sex. Its the most amazing ...

A.   15 February 2007: Yes, gay men are capable of having sex with a woman and many do. Many gay men are married to women and have children! But don't fool yourself--when he meets THE ONE (male) he will leave you in a heartbeat.... (read in full...)

Why doesn't my new husband ever want to have sex with me?

Q.   My husband and I are young (22-24) and newly married (just over 1yr) and it seems like he doesn't want to have sex. No kids, We cuddle, lay in bed naked every night, go out on date nights, talk all the time, and do the massages often. I've even ...

A.   15 February 2007: Sorry, Sweetie, but it's possible he's gay. I have personally known several women who married gay men and had children before leaving the wife for another man. (My daughter for one.) Observe his behavior around attractive males. Find out before ... (read in full...)

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