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Hey Everyone!!!

I'm 26 and live in Lancashire. I have a 4 year old daughter from a previous relationship. I am a really outgoing and chatty person, and love to enjoy life. I don't like arguments, and am really easygoing. I love football, and i support Blackburn Rovers (no comments, please, haha!)

If anyone wants advice off me, i'd be happy to help or just listen. I was in a serious relationship from the age of 16 to 24 (had my daughter with him) in that time, before my daughter was born, it was pretty on and off, he left me time and time again, i was always committed and there for him, he had a lot of 'issues', cheated on me, with both men and women, etc. After the little one was born i said no more, and we kind of stabilised, but after two years it went sour, and i realised that i didn't feel the way i should do about him, i think i'd been trying for too long and wanting it to work without actually listening to my heart. So, i finally did the hardest thing and left, and i haven't looked back. The major problem is, he's now realised that i'm the one for him, but i'm not interested anymore, it's hard hurting him but i want to be happy! It's been over 18 months now, and i've finally moved on and looking for someone else.

I'm here if anyone needs anything!

xxx

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