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What kind of things do high school boys look for in a girl?

Q.   What kind of things do high school boys like in a girl for them to like that girl? Do they need to look, act, and dress in a certain way for that guy to like them? Is it better to try and be their friend first? But more importantly, what kind of ...

A.   13 February 2011: The number one thing a guy will look for in a girl to like them in a romantic way is physical attractiveness. This will always be an unpopular opinion because some people hate reality, but it's true. It's not shallow, but millions of years of human ... (read in full...)

Am I doing something to keep men away?

Q.   I am a 24 year old woman, and I have no luck with guys. They rarely approach me, and I am kinda shy and afraid of rejection so I dont want to approach them. I have had one real boyfriend, but that relationship did not last long and was disastrous. ...

A.   21 July 2010: You have not really provided us enough detail. But here's my generic advice. I wouldn't worry about approaching guys, for better or worse society has put that onus on us. However, put yourself in the position of a nervous guy who wants to approach ... (read in full...)

Opinions appreciated. Am I still a virgin... or not?

Q.   hi so, im not sure if i lost my virginity, like his penis was in me but he was pretty thick and i was pretty tight and it was my first time so it was really sore, he pulled out though when i said i couldn't take it so does it mean im not a virgin? ...

A.   13 July 2010: Virginity is an arbitrary, made up concept. Growing up, I knew plenty of girls who hadn't technically had sex who weren't very virginal. If you still think of yourself as a virgin, and tell people as such, nobody can prove otherwise. I would sp... (read in full...)

I'm scared to meet him because of how I look...

Q.   Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend online for like seven months or so, but hes meeting me this summer... sad fact is i have a beautiful face but my body isn't im fat, small boobs (but he likes butts) and im kinda scared to meet him. But I've said i ...

A.   13 July 2010: He should love you for you, and whether you like it or not, what you look like is part of 'you'. Romantic relationships are partially based on physical attraction. People should never judge you at friendship, work, or school based on what you look... (read in full...)

Do girls like friends that just listen?

Q.   I really like my friend, but don't have the courage to ask her out, so do girls like having friends that just listen? Or do you prefer boyfriends?...

A.   3 January 2010: Basically everyone has given you bad advice. Girls say they want a guy to listen. Of course they do, and there's nothing wrong with that. The question is whether that's really the role you want to be playing. The guy's a little closer to targe... (read in full...)

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