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Why is it okay to criticize big boobs?

Q.   Every time there is a question about small breasts, I've noticed a lot of people take it upon themselves to criticise big breasts and call them 'ugly' and 'saggy' it's really insensitive, and quite offensive. The latest question I'm referring to is ...

A.   15 February 2014: But, why shouldn't this behaviour of criticism be openly discussed, challenged and questioned? Just because you and I are strangers why can't we be accountable for what we say to one another? I do think that if someone gets upset by someone else ... (read in full...)

Is there anyone who has a similar job in reception or administration that can give me some tips

Q.   Can anyone give me abit of advice for starting a new job. I know its not a relationship question but its really getting me down. I'm by far a confident person, infact I'm worried that I won't be able to do the job properly and perform as they had ...

A.   14 February 2014: Congrats on getting this new job. Being organised is a big thing, as Honeypie said write everything down & have different sections for different tasks. Also, with excel, there are a lot of online courses you can take, if you're from the UK like ... (read in full...)

Why is it okay to criticize big boobs?

Q.   Every time there is a question about small breasts, I've noticed a lot of people take it upon themselves to criticise big breasts and call them 'ugly' and 'saggy' it's really insensitive, and quite offensive. The latest question I'm referring to is ...

A.   14 February 2014: I agree, it is completely valid to say, if something upsets you don't read it. BUT I don't see the harm in exercising a little empathy to those who might read before posting? Clearly some people don't agree but I think it's just nice to be nice. The ... (read in full...)

Why is it okay to criticize big boobs?

Q.   Every time there is a question about small breasts, I've noticed a lot of people take it upon themselves to criticise big breasts and call them 'ugly' and 'saggy' it's really insensitive, and quite offensive. The latest question I'm referring to is ...

A.   14 February 2014: "Why should boobs be a more sensitive , delicate issue than shoes or cars ?.... Wait, I guess I know the answer- because probably people don't freak out if you question their sense of style, or their driving choices, they shrug and say " tastes are ... (read in full...)

Why is it okay to criticize big boobs?

Q.   Every time there is a question about small breasts, I've noticed a lot of people take it upon themselves to criticise big breasts and call them 'ugly' and 'saggy' it's really insensitive, and quite offensive. The latest question I'm referring to is ...

A.   14 February 2014: jls022 after reading this: "If you posted the question 'will men hate my large boobs because they sag a bit?' I GUARANTEE you would get lots of responses saying that men love them big, big boobs rule etc." I decided to do a search on dear cupid an... (read in full...)

Why is it okay to criticize big boobs?

Q.   Every time there is a question about small breasts, I've noticed a lot of people take it upon themselves to criticise big breasts and call them 'ugly' and 'saggy' it's really insensitive, and quite offensive. The latest question I'm referring to is ...

A.   13 February 2014: "You only have to open a newspaper or magazine to read some inspirational story of a fat person who was bullied enough they got thin. Obviously not an ideal scenario but it worked when everything else they tried failed." & What about the ones tha... (read in full...)

Why is it okay to criticize big boobs?

Q.   Every time there is a question about small breasts, I've noticed a lot of people take it upon themselves to criticise big breasts and call them 'ugly' and 'saggy' it's really insensitive, and quite offensive. The latest question I'm referring to is ...

A.   13 February 2014: I didn't think my replies were going through so I wrote it 3 times! d'oh! SVC: I completely agree with you, I think you gave practical advice & spoke about how YOUR boobs made YOU feel. I didn't think there was anything wrong with that. I thought ... (read in full...)

Why is it okay to criticize big boobs?

Q.   Every time there is a question about small breasts, I've noticed a lot of people take it upon themselves to criticise big breasts and call them 'ugly' and 'saggy' it's really insensitive, and quite offensive. The latest question I'm referring to is ...

A.   13 February 2014: Thanks for your responses, I was asked to give an example, so I picked the last one I read- My question wasn't solely directed at Cerberus. Here's another example question that probably reflects my point more accurately ... (read in full...)

Why is it okay to criticize big boobs?

Q.   Every time there is a question about small breasts, I've noticed a lot of people take it upon themselves to criticise big breasts and call them 'ugly' and 'saggy' it's really insensitive, and quite offensive. The latest question I'm referring to is ...

A.   13 February 2014: This isn't solely directed at that question or Cerberus's answer. I was asked to give an example, & I had just read that one, but there are so many more questions like this, with so many more insensitive and harsh answers, so to get my point across, ... (read in full...)

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