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I cant understand why I feel the need to go back to him!

Q.   i really need advice, i dont know if people know how it is to be in a controlling relationship, but i've recently got out of one. my ex boyfriend started of by being really lovely, coming to see me, buying me things, making me feel special telling ...

A.   18 May 2011: thankyou both so much :), just after being put down so so much and having everything taken away i felt abit crazy for needing the person who took my own control of my life away. thankyou ... (read in full...)

When a girl stops giving oral does it mean they are no longer into you?

Q.   Hi Just looking for some advice really Ive been with my partner for nearly three years now, things are great except for one aspect. We still have sex regularly, but the oral sex (from her) has gone from frequently to hardly ever- even as...

A.   17 May 2011:  i used to tell my bf i loved giving him bjs but i didn't, i still carried on doing it though because i always wanted to please him. tbh id be more happy she is being honest now :) like someone else said, if your going down on her, maybe s... (read in full...)

Am I going off him or is it stress?

Q.   Ive been with my boyfriend only two months. He seems perfect, kind, thoughtful, he takes me out and actually listens. Recently I have found myself not wanting sex with him and getting angry at everything he does or says. We see each other prett...

A.   26 April 2011: your probably just stressed. ive been with my bf for a year, and i saw him every single day, i had to juggle college, and revision and work, and make time for him everyday. it stressed me out so much. because i didn't feel i had enough time for... (read in full...)

Help! I fantasise about my boyfriend with other women when we have sex!

Q.   This is going to sound very strange!!! I have always been quite a jealous person and I still very much am. On a normal day, the thought of my boyfriend even looking at another woman makes me angry and upset. However, when I am with my boyfrien...

A.   26 April 2011: people often love to fantasize about things which they wouldn't want to happen in real life, becuse it makes it exciting. i think each of us has our own unique fantasies, and i would say your normal , as much as anyone else is normal. i would no... (read in full...)

Could taking a shower after sex somehow get me pregnant?

Q.   i didn't get any clear answers from this last time, so im asking again, and making my question clearer, my boyfriend ejaculated onto my breasts and stomach. we did not have sex!!!( i want to make it clear, we didn't have sex, or use the "pull ou...

A.   26 April 2011: thankyou all :') really helpful. i was just stressing over it, people say so many different things so i needed others opinions to see what otheres thought. x... (read in full...)

How should I respond to his need for space?

Q.   I'm not sure what to do about my relationship. One of my boyfriend's friends told me that my boyfriend told him that he thinks the world of me, but he feels ashamed because he doesnt have much money. His hours were cut down at work recently. Things ...

A.   25 April 2011: alot of people can often be ashamed of their money situation, and since his hours have been cut down, he could feel like he doesn't have enough money to be with you, or he could feel ashamed at how you would think of him now that his hours have been ... (read in full...)

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