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My boyfriend says nothing is happening with his ex, but I'm sure it is!

Q.   My live in boyfriend is cheating with his ex. He says he's not cheating. Everything that I say is wrong and it turns into an arguement. Please I need help. I love him but it is hard to even think he is with her. How do I prove to him that I am rig...

A.   18 July 2005: Here's a bit of information: a woman's intution is normally right. Trust your feelings but don't let them get the best of you. Sit him down and demand the truth. Let him know he's hurting your feelings and watch his eyes. If you know him well you ... (read in full...)

My friend is pregnant and she feels she can't tell her parents...

Q.   I'm 18 years old girl. My problem is about my close friend. Last week she found that she was pregnant with her boyfriend! We don't know what to do. I told her to tell her mom but she said she can't because her mom will not accept and it'll make ...

A.   18 July 2005: I understand that it maybe scary for her to tell her mom. Hey I was only 16 when I got pregnant with my first kid but I also realized something, that it wasn't going to go away, plus the choice wasn't mine any more. It wan't time to think about me, ... (read in full...)

Just one phone call from my ex and it's like nothing ever changed!

Q.   I had from a boyfriend from out of town for 3 years who lied to me since he was married. I found out and broke up and made it impossible for him to contact me, (change numbers and address) I was so heartbroken and lost my job, very depressed and I ...

A.   18 July 2005: I know how you feel. I was head over heels in love with my son's father. Then he left because he wasn't ready to give up his other girlfriend. Now four years later, after I've done got married and added to my family, he comes out of nowhere and the ... (read in full...)

We split up after I read a relationship book...

Q.   hi I have recently split up with my bf who I was with for 10 months. The reason we split up was because I read a relationship book, in the book it says to distance yourself from the relationship if it is not going your way. So i decided not to s...

A.   16 July 2005: In this case not everything you read should be taken to heart. I think you need to go to a place and group together your thoughts and then write him a letter telling him how you really feel. Then if he feels that there is any hope for the ... (read in full...)

Choose my friend, or choose my friend's boyfriend? What do I do?

Q.   I have a problem.I love my friend's boyfriend and I think he love me too but my friend don't know about my relation.Both of them are very good to me.I am confused that I should choose my friend or him.What should I do?... ...

A.   16 July 2005: I think you should choose your friend. If he's going behind her back with you then most likely if you pursue a relationship with him what will he do behind your back? Guys come a dime a dozen but friendship is supposed to last forever and I think ... (read in full...)

What can I tell my friend when she asks if she should break off with her boyfriend?

Q.   Hi, I have a problem that I have a friend who always quarrels with her boyfriend about everything, but both of them do still love each other very much. She has asked for my opinion whether she should break off this relationship. What can I suggest ...

A.   16 July 2005: The only thing is honesty is the best answer. She's your friend and she probably has trust in your response. Just let her know that you're there for her no matter what her decision is. Guys come a dime a dozen but friendship lasts forver.... (read in full...)

What happened? She left her husband for me... then she turned on me!

Q.   I broke every single relationship rule I have... I had a crush on a girl in college seven years ago, remember everything about her, nothing about the classes we shared. Then about seven months ago I ran into her where I work, big office building,...

A.   15 July 2005: All I can really say is let the past be the past. Enjoy every minute you did have, and move on with yourself and your future. It seems to me if she had been in a loveless relationship for that long you were just her scapegoat. Get out and enjoy ... (read in full...)

My ex split because he fancied my best friend. Now I have a new bf, but I hear he says nasty things behind my back!

Q.   Hi, I'm 16 yrs About two years ago, I went out with a boy. He was really nice, but he split up with me when he fancied my best friend. I really liked him even when we weren't going. I think I loved him, but every day he flirted with her in front of...

A.   2 July 2005: Honestly if he talks behind your back drop him, he ain't worth the pain.A nd as for the ex, can you really trust him? If he flirted before he will probably do it again. You should find someone who is going to care about you and not just for two ... (read in full...)

There's nothing between us any more. Should I carry on for the sake of our child?

Q.   Hi I'm desperately unhappy. My partner is five months pregnant .. we do not get on ... no love, no care, no kindness... and we are about to move into a house togther. Should I go through with it for the sake or our baby or end it now please ? ...

A.   2 July 2005: I was in your shoes before I was pregnant and there were no real feelings towards my son's father. I decided it would be in the best interest of the child to part ways. There's always time for parent time. A child deserves to be in a house where ... (read in full...)

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