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After hearing he verbally cheated on me I feel all these years together have been fake.

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for almost seven years now. Last year I found out he was cheating on me through email. The girl he was talking to had an ex that actually told me. I guess they used to chat online alot back when they were younger. ...

A.   25 March 2010: well i can tell you that cheating is a pattern behavior that almost assuredly repeats itself...if he can lie,lie frequently and tell the biggest lies, then hes not for you.thats probably not what you wanted to hear,but i think you would find it best ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend and my ex are comparing notes about my bedroom activities!!!

Q.   My girlfriend and I have a good relationship but recently something has happened that is really not cool with me. I had to go to my ex girlfriend's place to tie up some loose ends. It's pretty involved so I just want to leave out unimportant ...

A.   25 March 2010: That's quite the pickle, but i can tell you from experience, it only goes downhill from here.The fact that they know each other is bad enough,but you and your ex didnt split on good terms, and now theyre comparing notes? First of all,that's pret... (read in full...)

Why do we hurt even if we're in love?

Q.   Why is it that even if you and the person you are with are in love why does it still hurt ? i just try to understand that but i can't. i know he love's me. but why do we go through all the thing's we do ?...

A.   22 March 2010: I'm sure its not all bad.you cant build a foundation on love, but it can keep you together.ever heard the phrase,"love isnt enough"?.its because it isnt.its great to love someone,and even better when they love you in return.but thats hardly ever the ... (read in full...)

This is to the men... what attracts you to women?

Q.   Hey everyone. Just a general 'i want him to like me' question; theres this guy, 2 years above me that i really like. I want him to notice me for my assets etc. Men and boys; what attracts you? hows the best way to walk, talk, act etc. What d...

A.   22 March 2010: Men,or at least any decent ones,admire their equal.They admire brains,beauty and confidence.Relationships are only complicated because people make them that way.Keep it simple!... (read in full...)

Is there anything I can do to be more attractive physically or am I just too old to be considered attractive?

Q.   I would like to hear a sincere answer. Not a mean one, but a sincere one. I've been feeling very depressed about my age and my appearance lately. I feel like I'm very plain and unattractive and I want SO BADLY to be attractive and desir...

A.   22 March 2010: I can easily tell you what youre missing:Beauty is only skindeep, what you need is confidence.Age is a number but if youre not confident in what you have to offer or what youre capable of people can tell,you will most certainly express that in the ... (read in full...)

How can I ever trust someone ever again after what she did to me?

Q.   i was dating this girl for a while, but she hooked up with somone else, got pregnant,and basically started pretending i didnt exist. she ignored all my textes,and didnt answer her phone when i called. we were extremely close and my question is, feel...

A.   22 March 2010: Thank all of you for your responses.Usually, Im pretty self reliant,but it's been two months,and I can't seem to let this go.All of your reponses were helpful and I appreciate the feedback.Thanx!... (read in full...)

How do I protect my brother an from internet stalker?

Q.   My brother has a girl on his facebook page that he's never met but she writes on his wall nearly everyday. She calls him babe and hun and seems quite obsessed with him. I'm worried that she is not who she says she is. I've told my parents but they ...

A.   22 March 2010: just so you know what youre describing would probably fall under cyber bullying,which is a crime. talk to him, talk to her, and warn her that what shes doing isnt "harmless". if it bothers him, then its wrong.... (read in full...)

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