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Torn between two lovers

Q.   I'm in love with two men. The other one is my ex boyfriend (Jan) and the other is my friend (Matthew). Jan just broke up with me recently this month. He actually broke up with me twice for two consecutive days. He broke up with me because he is so ...

A.   24 June 2011: You cannot be in love with two people at the same time! Most are only ever in love once in the whole of their very long life. You can fancy two men or like two men or be fond of them, but not be in love with them. Anyway, being in love means you ... (read in full...)

What should I do about my friend? I think she has been strealing from me and she is getting very controlling....

Q.   i have been best friends with this girl for 5 years. But lately I've been thinking the friendship has been more of a poisonous friendship than an actual good one. I've been suspecting she has been stealing from me (I lose things at home and then ...

A.   24 June 2011: It seems to me that you do not have many friends because people with a lot of true friends would not bother with this person. You are holding on to this person because you do not have other friends. You have very little in common, you are a lot more... (read in full...)

He tells me that I am not a good wife or mother! I don't think I can go on like this anymore, what should I do?

Q.   This have been bothering me for quite sometime now. My husband and me used to have very good relationship. I always take care of him when his home even though I'm already tired from work I make it a point to cook and give time to him and our five ...

A.   24 June 2011: Your husband is hurting you. If it was important to him that you were a good wife and mother he should make sure of that before he marries you, not marry you and then find out and then change his mind. Who is he to criticise you anyway? You sound ... (read in full...)

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