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Creepy teacher!

Q.   Ok, i'm not gonna sugercoat this. I think my tutor is a pervert and his actions are starting to make me feel uncomfortable. I am by nature a flirty person, but it's not always in a sexual way, just giving people an ego boost if they look like they ...

A.   10 May 2010: It's not that easy, some teachers can use the power imbalance in a student/teacher relationship to their advantage which makes it hard to be assertive. I say get as far away from this man as possible, he sounds like trouble and if he's recently gone ... (read in full...)

Crushing on an old friend...

Q.   Okay, so I've known this guy for about seven years, but we've never really known each other properly. Like, we've acknowledged eachother, and I guess we're friends, but we've never been close. Now recently, I've started to develop feelings for him....

A.   19 January 2010: Thank you for your help! I'm doing a concert with my band on the 30th, and he has just joined the rival band of ours, which I'm not sure whether is a good thing. I've invited him to a Valentine's Day party of mine, and told him not to bring a girl... (read in full...)

Crushing on an old friend...

Q.   Okay, so I've known this guy for about seven years, but we've never really known each other properly. Like, we've acknowledged eachother, and I guess we're friends, but we've never been close. Now recently, I've started to develop feelings for him....

A.   18 January 2010: Thanks, I am trying to get to know him better, but I feel sometimes like I am wrong to flirt with him, like I respect him too much. I want to start a relationship, though, and to flirt is the only way I know how. Thank you, though :)... (read in full...)

I feel violated by his video antics!!!

Q.   Last night I found video on my boyfriend computer, about a week old, of him filming up the skirts of women. I found 5 videos, i dont know if there are more. The video clearly shows his face, and him on escalators, putting his camera phone up girls ...

A.   18 January 2010: One of my friends recently divorced her husband because of the same issue. I'm not sure about your country, but in mine, what he did was illegal. It's very serious and disgusting, and I understand perfectly when you say you feel even more violated ... (read in full...)

I made out with my teacher ... where do I go from here?

Q.   i have been attracted to my science teacher for three years now, but never thought he was interested in me; we've always been close, but only in a friendly way. recently, though, we started texting and it escalated into him telling me how he truely ...

A.   11 January 2010: If he's unhappy being with his wife, he should leave her whether there's another woman or not. I think you should try to limit your contact with him until the divorce papers are signed. Then you'll know he's for real. I think you should ask to talk... (read in full...)

Discretly ask boyfriend to lose weight?

Q.   How do I kindly and discreetly ask my boyfriend to lose weight with me? I don't want him to lose a lot, but just a little, and I don't know how to go about doing it. ...

A.   11 January 2010: You could say that you want to get more healthy and it would be great if he could support you? Find ways that you can make working out fun for both of you. Or, if he's a couch potato, suggest that you do something fun after the workout as a rewa... (read in full...)

How can I get over a teacher crush I'll never forget?

Q.   I once had a crush. It felt stronger than a crush - it felt more like I was in love. At the time it was wonderful and when I saw him my heart made a jump out of my chest, or when I talked to him he would always be kind and had a wonderfully charming ...

A.   10 January 2010: Don't sweat it! You saw this guy every day for years, of course there's gonna be an imprint there. Now if you crushed on him when you were ten, some feelings are bound to remain, as you started contact with him when you were very impressionable. ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to fancy my teacher, especially since he is the same sex and a lot older?

Q.   I am a 13 year old boy. In school, my P.E teacher (who is in his twenties...or thirties) is a close family friend. He comes round my house often and we all get along really well. He favours me over the other boys and he treats me like a really good ...

A.   4 January 2010: I'm not going to insult you by saying that this is an easy one... You shouldn't tell him, many people can't handle guys who like guys, for some weird reason. All I'd say, is that it's possible to crush on guys without being gay. I've crushed on ... (read in full...)

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