I can't get hard when I need to!
Q. hi i have a BIG PROBLEM doing me alot of damages. Ive been in a realtionship for 2 years and the last months i had problems getting an erection when i need to. Or get it really fast and then disapering. My gf broke upp with me then i got a head form ...
A. 8 March 2011: Stop worrying. Worrying is your biggest problem. Just because you tried sex with guys does not mean you are gay & if you were you should not see that as a problem either.
Stress is the most likely cause of your TEMPORARY problem & it is your own ... (read in full...)
What can I do to solve my emotional problems, and why do girls seem to dislike me?
Q. I am a 20 going on 21 male living Indiana. I have a problem, ive never had a relationship really. I have had 2 girlfriends but they were just toying with me, and all it did was make me feel bad. Im attending a commumity college, and have been for ...
A. 8 March 2011: Sounds like you have had some bad experiences but that doesn’t mean there is nothing good to look forward to. You have to remember that without the negative it is impossible to appreciate the positive. We all need contrast in our lives to enable us ... (read in full...)
I met a guy with similar interests, and Asperger’s, like me. Will he ever want more than a friendship with me?
Q. A few weeks ago, I met a mutual friend of a friend on Facebook. He, like me, is an intelligent, high-functioning Asperger's Syndrome-affected teenager, nearly three years older, but I am nearly seventeen, and has many similar hobbies and ...
A. 26 February 2011: You are so lucky to have found such a wonderful friend. It may be his reaction is a result of his aspergers, maybe not. Cherish the fact that you get on so well together and enjoy the relationship for what it is; he may not be ready just yet for a ... (read in full...)
What can I do to solve my emotional problems, and why do girls seem to dislike me?
Q. I am a 20 going on 21 male living Indiana. I have a problem, ive never had a relationship really. I have had 2 girlfriends but they were just toying with me, and all it did was make me feel bad. Im attending a commumity college, and have been for ...
A. 23 February 2011: How sad your letter made me feel you are a young man on the brink of possibly the most exciting time of your life, but instead of looking for opportunities you are already dismissing the rest of your life as worthless. The saying ‘Life is what you ... (read in full...)
We are not together anymore but he still lives with me and people assume we are still a couple!
Q. I really hope someone out there can help me,I really do.I'm in my 30's and my 'partner' is 17 years older than me.We have 4 kids together,and I'm pregnant also.I wanted another child really badly,and needed help to conceive,so when I discovered I ...
A. 23 February 2011: You are giving out such mixed messages. You expect him to father a child but you do not want him to be in their life so he can’t be their dad. He must be feeling so confused no wonder he is temperamental & cranky so would anyone be in his position. ... (read in full...)
Would you hide a pregnancy?
Q. if you are in your mid twenties, would you hide a pregnacy? ...
A. 23 February 2011: Once you are pregnant it is too late to hide for the most obvious of reasons. It would also be very stressful for both you & the baby. If you intend going ahead with the pregnancy then you need to be honest & face up to the fact that you have ... (read in full...)
How do you meet people when you're new in a city?
Q. A few months ago, my ex and I broke up. I'm in the process of moving to a new city, and I'm ready to get back into dating. My question is, how do you meet people when you're new in a city? I used to be shy, but I think I've become really confident ...
A. 23 February 2011: There are meetup groups on the internet & they are a great way of meeting new people. They are not specifically dating sites so you have a much better chance of meeting new people male & female to expand your group of friends therefore giving you ... (read in full...)
6 months pregnant, 16 and boyfriend treating me badly
Q. well i am 16 years old. and i am now 6 months pregnant with a son of my boyfriend for 3 years. he wanted me to get an abortion but i couldn't bring myself to do it. he kind of got used to the idea or so i thought. now he is treating me like shit by ...
A. 23 February 2011: He is probably petrified. Having a baby is a massive responsibility & quite frankly at 16 neither of you are prepared for the impact that it will have on your lives. Babies do not bring couples together mostly they pull them apart because a babies ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't care about me either way. why?
Q. I cheated on my girlfriend with my ex two years ago and she took it hard. It was a bad move because once I started going out with my ex again I realized that it was my girlfriend that I loved and not her. So i went bck to my girlfriend but she ...
A. 23 February 2011: It's unlikely that she is cheating you; are the one who cheated on her. You cannot betray someone’s trust the way you did & expect it all to go back to how it was. She sounds like a lovely person who loved & cared about you a great deal; your ... (read in full...)
Is is ok for a married woman to have a platonic relationship with a man?
Q. i am happily married woman and would like to know if wanting a platonic friendship with a male friend ive known for 27 years is ok?...
A. 23 February 2011: It depends how happy you are in your current relationship. Are you asking the question because you feel it could be a threat; if so do you want to jeapordise your relationship? Can your husband be part of the friendship or does it have to be ... (read in full...)
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